"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is fun or funny to girls?

CCKazi007

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Just a quick quetion on what do girls find funny or fun! I realized that I usually make them laugh through teasing and ****y&funny but wanted to know if there was any other ways. So What do they find funny? I know they like to feel different emotions which is why "Neg hitting works" does this mean I should tell her a sad story then a funny one?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've removed heart-to-heart talking from my talkings, especially with girls I don't want any relationship with... And ****y&funny is great weapon. Thundercat had wrote a book explaining how to use a single story to make a girl feel different kind of feelings.

I remember one. It's about a dog that died. Note when telling that, she felt sad for you. But then you add, "We were happy the ***** has gone, she would sit all day on the sofa and will move to eat or **** on the carpet.... She was a great investment for us"

Now that's how to mix sad and fun.

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Neg hitting doesn't work unless you know how to do it right.

When I want to impress a girl with fun or funny, I think of what is unpredicted and the coolest thing I could do at the moment. Or just live in the moment like I'm a movie star or someone cool.

Like dancing even if its not on the dance floor or when it is, just being goofy and having fun. It helps to know how to dance.

Or walking down the street and stop for a moment, say wait, look up to the stars, when she looks up kiss her.

I found when I go out and have fun, even just on my own or with buds, chicks will find me to be fun. It can't be manufactured or coerced.
 

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Ok so being fun would be teasing and saying random stuff to be interesting. Any other points I'm missin or is that it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CCKazi007 said:
Ok so being fun would be teasing and saying random stuff to be interesting. Any other points I'm missin or is that it?
the way your talking, it seems like you feel the need to impress her by being fun... Don't do that!!! Be yourself, be natural, have a good time and she will enjoy you.
 

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Funny isnt something you can teach you either are or your not. Im funny and quick witted but it comes naturally to me. Use observational humour rather than telling jokes I cant give examples because its more of an impulse thing. Best thing to do is to be funny when you are around friends or just people you know use this as practice and it will come more naturally to you, girls are human beings just like us and if you can make friends and people you know laugh then you should be able to make girls laugh.
 
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