"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what is freedom

amazingswayze

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Freedom to me, is the day I realized rejection doesn't matter. All that matters is at least you tried.

Freedom to me, is living life on your own terms. Stop caring what others think.

Freedom to me, is finding happiness in a world filled with adversity. They don't want to see you succeed.

what is freedom to you?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Money = Freedom = Happines

And this isn't an opinion, this is fact. Just kidding, or maybe not. The more money you have the more time you can spend doing things YOU want to do. No one once to spend their time grinding a 9-5. Debt free wealthy living is the way. America wants modern day corporate slaves.
 

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Being able to make your own decisions and to live life how you want without living life for other people. Most people cater to other people living life how they want you to live. When you do that, you're not living your own life.
 
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if you don't have "eff you" type money, 1/2 million $ or so, (in the US, that is) you dont have the most basic, most important freedom, freedom from slavery to a boss, to customers, etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SmooveMooves said:
Money = Freedom = Happines

And this isn't an opinion, this is fact. Just kidding, or maybe not. The more money you have the more time you can spend doing things YOU want to do. No one once to spend their time grinding a 9-5. Debt free wealthy living is the way. America wants modern day corporate slaves.
This is the universal truth.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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When the US goes to other foreign countries and forces the civilians to be free whether they like it or not......

Oh wait, you asked for my definition.

When you have the ability to do what you want, when you want without caring at all and know that too.
 
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Freedom is living by our own values AND having the ability to think freely without blindly following cultural or societal norms.

Freedom is NOT being outcome dependent. Its knowing no matter what happens you will sleep well at night because you did what YOU believed was right.. even if no one else agrees or approves.
 

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Poon King said:
Freedom is living by our own values AND having the ability to think freely without blindly following cultural or societal norms.

Freedom is NOT being outcome dependent. Its knowing no matter what happens you will sleep well at night because you did what YOU believed was right.. even if no one else agrees or approves.
:up: :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SmooveMooves said:
Money = Freedom = Happines

And this isn't an opinion, this is fact. Just kidding, or maybe not. The more money you have the more time you can spend doing things YOU want to do. No one once to spend their time grinding a 9-5. Debt free wealthy living is the way. America wants modern day corporate slaves.
prison/con.net said:
if you don't have "eff you" type money, 1/2 million $ or so, (in the US, that is) you dont have the most basic, most important freedom, freedom from slavery to a boss, to customers, etc.
These guys get it :up:

The money factor also plays hand in hand with game. Game is nothing more than mirroring the mentality and actions of successful, confident men. With money you never have to worry about any one particular woman or even be tied down to her. The b*tch better be on her toes because the competition is going to be stiff and lining up ready for the day that you decide to fire and replace her @$$. Look at Floyd "Money" Mayweather. 6 different girlfriends and not one of them can say a damn thing because he calls the shots. When you're the top dog these ho's better be happy that you're even providing them with the opportunity to be part of your rotation.
 

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Poon King said:
Freedom is living by our own values AND having the ability to think freely without blindly following cultural or societal norms.

Freedom is NOT being outcome dependent. Its knowing no matter what happens you will sleep well at night because you did what YOU believed was right.. even if no one else agrees or approves.
Nicely said!
 
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