"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What is fear?

Rint

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Today i noticed something. I was doing the laundry and i saw a spider and i jumped a little because i didn't expect it, but i then remembered something we were all told by our guardians. "It's more afraid of you then you are of it" and i was thinking women are the same. They do believe their better and that they are more intellegent and they are also have more self control. Some of these maybe true. Women come up with new methods to tease us and to make us work for them, but does that mean their better? no! Hell no! **** no! Women are the same as us and they know it, they want sex just as badly as we do maybe even more, they want to be kissed and touched probably more then we do too. So why be afraid of them? Next time your picking up girls or approaching one remember this their more afraid of you then you are of them, and i dont mean their scared your going to rape them i mean their more afraid that your going to make them act like men by making them chasing after you. We're on the same level here they dont want to get rejected and they want to be loved. So dont fear them, we're all on the same level

There is no shame in anyone's game
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yea ur right, but i'm not use to giving advice, but thanks for the positive reinforcment.
 

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"People fear what they dont understand."
Fear,impossible,and can't are all words that are mental mindsets used by weak minded men who dont have the drive to push themselves.
 

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thats true blink i wrote an article called positive attitude about that. We fear what we do not understand, because we judge it to be something it's not
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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