"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is fear?

Rint

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Today i noticed something. I was doing the laundry and i saw a spider and i jumped a little because i didn't expect it, but i then remembered something we were all told by our guardians. "It's more afraid of you then you are of it" and i was thinking women are the same. They do believe their better and that they are more intellegent and they are also have more self control. Some of these maybe true. Women come up with new methods to tease us and to make us work for them, but does that mean their better? no! Hell no! **** no! Women are the same as us and they know it, they want sex just as badly as we do maybe even more, they want to be kissed and touched probably more then we do too. So why be afraid of them? Next time your picking up girls or approaching one remember this their more afraid of you then you are of them, and i dont mean their scared your going to rape them i mean their more afraid that your going to make them act like men by making them chasing after you. We're on the same level here they dont want to get rejected and they want to be loved. So dont fear them, we're all on the same level

There is no shame in anyone's game
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rint

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yea ur right, but i'm not use to giving advice, but thanks for the positive reinforcment.
 

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"People fear what they dont understand."
Fear,impossible,and can't are all words that are mental mindsets used by weak minded men who dont have the drive to push themselves.
 

Rint

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thats true blink i wrote an article called positive attitude about that. We fear what we do not understand, because we judge it to be something it's not
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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