"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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what is corporate/business casual?

Chip

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what is corporate/business casual?
Is is dress shirt and pants?
with or without a tie?
Or can it be grey sweater and black dress pants and shoes?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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undesputable

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im not sure, still in high school. but by looking at the corporate world it seems like casual would be a conservative look, like a tie, and a coat.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Basically anything (besides jeans and khakis) that isn't a matching two or three piece suit.

- Slacks and a button down shirt
- Slacks, shirt and tie
- Slacks, button down shirt and jacket
- Slacks, shirt, sweater
- Slacks, shirt, tie and sweater

Since it's corporate, you will always want to wear a shirt with a collar. Also, make sure that you always wear nice (comfortable) dress shoes and keep them polished and clean. Gnarly shoes will mess up any outfit.
 

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If you work for a dotcom just wear your undies to work ;)
 
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