"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is considered LDR/LTR?

Thatfeel21

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Ok.
So how many miles away does your girl have to be until it's considered to be a Long Distance relationship?

And what about time in hours?

Also, how many months with your broad before it transitions into a long term relationship?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kingsam

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id say exclusive for a year to be classified as a real LTR
an exclusive 6-12 months for Medium term RL
 

horaholic

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Exactly 52.6 miles, and/ or 2 hours 37 minute drive.

WTF? Does there really need to be a definition here?
 
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