What is considered an actual Flake?

[PimpOfTheSouth]

I see posts here about guys attempting to get a girl out with some back and forth conversation but couldn't get the girl out on a date right away and they call that a flake.

I've always considered a flake is when you set an actual date and time and the girl doesn't show or makes up some kind of excuse.

I don't consider it a flake if nothing was ever made official. Thoughts?

 

[Boxer00]

A flake is an excuse from a girl that has no interest to hang out.

If the girl makes no hints about wanting to go out she isn't interested. I've talked with girls that said "we should hang out" before I had the chance to set a date. Even if a guy doesn't set a date, the interested girl will make it known she wants to go out.

 

[Poon King]

Flaking is when a commitment is made.. then broken.

Most women will flake at some point just to see how you handle it. Then judge you based on it. The more upset or reactive you get.. the more her vagina will dry up. The less you care.. the more horny she gets.

I said it before and I'll say it again.. women LOVE when you don't give a sh!t about them. At least in the early stages. Once you engage in beta submission and commit to ONE woman.. then she expects slavish devotion because in her mind you are her slave/assistant whom should be ready to serve her at the snap of her fingers.

This is why ALL men who completely commit to ONE woman are co-dependent, emotionally frail losers.

 

[Drummer93]

A woman who is considered a "flake" is someone who is heady. Someone who overthinks of the situation instead of feeling into it. Sure they will test you just to see how masculine you are, embrace it and pass by flying colors. Stay centered and don't allow one woman get the best of you.