"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
what is c&f?
- Thread starter Sart
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LuisGarcia10
Senior Don Juan
Dukester
Master Don Juan
****y and Funny - C&F
I read the first and second days and there were a few anograms, acronyms and abbreviations, c&f was never actually elaborate on. When one guy mentioned the answer, that was sufficient for me, but okay, I ama a dumb azz. Does that make you feel better?
Two things however, your signature is the AA creedo and secondly, do you want a game of wit?
I was surprised Duke because your other repose to another question was really pretty good, this one just made you look more AFC than me.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
and 2nd of all question? what was my other good response?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
READ THE ****ING BIBLE
I mean, ****y funny...but knowing that won't help you much. Read the bible for a more in depth answer to your question saying what C&F is ,examples of it, how/when to use it etc.