What is better, female or male wingman.

[Jaffers]

As we all know by now, females are more into guys who have more girls. I’ve been thinking about that quite a lot for awhile now. I even took 2 of my girl friends out (Just friends), whom know what I like doing and I started talking with random girls around in the bar while I had the girls interrupt my conversations with “Hey babe, I didn’t come here to not spend time with you.” And so on, my point being with a female wingman, that actually pretended that we were dating while I kissed other girls in the club created some weird aura with the other girls in the bar, and if one of my friends went to the bathroom I could easily just kiss my other friend to get reactions from the girls I was hitting on. For example this one girl when I did that said and I quote “Didn’t your girl friend just leave for the bathroom, what are you doing?” When she said that I smiled and told her well next time I’m going out you can come with us and you can be the one being friendly while sneaking around with me when she is not looking. Then when I turned away as if I was leaving she instantly told me to wait, and she gave me her business card. I stuffed it down in my pocket and turned my face to her while moving away and nodded. The girl playing my date came out of the bathroom and both me and my friends left the bar to go to another one. However not important, the day after I called the girl with the business card and said,
Me: Hey, it’s the weird person from the bar last night.
Her: Oh what one?
Me: Did you give out your number to a lot of crazy people last night? Maybe I shouldn’t have called.
Her: No wait, I just meant you never told me your name, I only gave you my number, I promise.
Me: Oh well, I’m not so sure about that, what did I wear?
Then she actually told me what I was wearing then went on about what she was wearing and that she didn’t usually wear those type of cloth and that she usually dressed better.
Her: Do you want to get some coffee? I don’t have anything special I need to do today.
Me: Sure, you’re paying thought.
Then she laughed for a little and went along with that idea later that day I went out with her for some coffee and she kept bugging me to tell her my name. And that it was only fair considering I knew her name from her card. So I told her my name, here is the kicker I told her if after we had sex.

Now for my question do you think, a female wingman or a male wingman is better? And why, seeing as results have been made with both but it feels like a lot less work while doing it with a female one. Also I am looking for people in my area with the same interests as myself to go out with and pick up women. So what is the better option, male or female?

 

[Zion]

Didnt read your post because it looks messy , however , regarding your initial question , I'd say it depends.


A woman wingman (pivot) provides a little extra social proof. If a group of women see you with a HB , it's some sort of proof that you are not a total chump. The more attractive she is , the more points for you.
That's all she really can do. I'll get back here a little later.


A real wingman however ,will earn you far faaar better benefits if he knows what he's doing. You lose the extra social proof points that the pivot will give you , so it's up to your skillz to hold your own with the target.

But the thing is , a pivot can only do so much. Take this as an example:

You got a group of 4 girls. You spot 1 , she's hot and you go for her.

The pivot can try and wing for you , keeping the 3 fat friends occupied with random smallchat and whatever giving you time to close the target , but she can only do so much in comparison to the guy wing. Why ? Well , the guy wing (if he's decent) will not only 'distract' the 3 fatties , but if he's good enough he can also get their panties wet. If he gets their sexual interest , the 'distraction' will be much more effective and you'll have all the time you need.


It pretty much depends on how good the guy wing actually is. If you have a good one , it's definitely better. If you don't have a skilled wingman , go for a pivot.

 

[Mike32ct]

I vote for wingman, not necessarily because it's better (although it probably is), but because the wing-girl thing isn't likely to happen.

She either sees a guy as a loser that can't get girls, and she won't help you.

Or

She finds you attractive and wants you for herself.

Even if you found a happily taken woman who thinks you're a catch, would she be interested in helping you? My guess is probably not.

 

[Mike32ct]

Not to split hairs, but my understanding is a wing-girl and a pivot aren't exactly the same.

A wing-girl actively helps you pick up. A pivot is a female friend who is hanging out with you, sort of a passive wing-girl. (A pivot may not even be aware that she is bring used as a pivot and/or for social proof lol.)

Finding a pivot probably isn't that hard. Finding a wing-girl probably is, for reasons discussed above.

 

[Mr Wright]

Look up Adam Lyons and his entourage game, see what you think