what is an orgasm?

[dj_china]

so this girl I'm ****ing says "she doesn't know if she has had an orgasm"

I know that generally ...that means she didn't have one, because "if you have one you would know it" people say...

but she describes the apex of her feeling as an expanding bubble of pleasure from the pelvis region that fills her entire body and lasts for a few seconds, during which she just wants to "go limp"
sounds like an orgasm to me...

is that it??

 

[jophil28]

Tell her that it's like a toothache - when you have one, you will know.

 

[j0n24]

I agree if a chick has an orgasm she will know...its basically the same thing as cumming for guys.

You cant really describe the feeling when it happens but there really isnt anything that feels the same way and when it happens you KNOW what happened.

 

[Serialized3]

leave it to the chinese to ask this question ... :woo:

 

[jophil28]

so this girl I'm ****ing says "she doesn't know if she has had an orgasm"

I know that generally ...that means she didn't have one, because "if you have one you would know it" people say...

but she describes the apex of her feeling as an expanding bubble of pleasure from the pelvis region that fills her entire body and lasts for a few seconds, during which she just wants to "go limp"
sounds like an orgasm to me...

is that it??

You should suggest that perhaps she has not quite got the hang of "this orgasm thing" and she needs more practise.
Kindly offer to assist her on her learning curve ....

 

[J. Darko]

I am 12 years old and what is this?

 

[Night Owl]

if you are doing it right she will know exactly what it is....!

 

[KingofHearts]

how old is this girl? Be careful, my crazy ex-wife use to say the same thing about orgasms.

 

[CuriousGirl]

If she's had an orgasm she would not describe it as an expanding bubble of pleasure but as an EXPLOSION of pleasure. And if she's lucky, explosion after explosion after explosion of pleasure.

But it does sound like she's getting there, just not quite reached the climax. Female orgasms are pretty different to male orgasms so I can't really explain what she's getting in terms of the male orgasm, but in penis terms it's a bit like the equivalent of her getting a semi but not a full erection.

 

[2crudedudes]

If she's had an orgasm she would not describe it as an expanding bubble of pleasure but as an EXPLOSION of pleasure. And if she's lucky, explosion after explosion after explosion of pleasure.

But it does sound like she's getting there, just not quite reached the climax. Female orgasms are pretty different to male orgasms so I can't really explain what she's getting in terms of the male orgasm, but in penis terms it's a bit like the equivalent of her getting a semi but not a full erection.

Hm.. from my experience, its more like almost nutting, except you hold yourself back, then lose your erection. You feel a sort of satisfaction, but its not a full blown orgasm.

Of course, I'm not sure either of our opinions really matter since neither of us have both sets of genitalia (unless you're hiding something...), but from what I understand, men just want to finish as quickly as possible, while women want to make sex last as long as possible without getting sore.

 

[CuriousGirl]

Hm.. from my experience, its more like almost nutting, except you hold yourself back, then lose your erection. You feel a sort of satisfaction, but its not a full blown orgasm.

Of course, I'm not sure either of our opinions really matter since neither of us have both sets of genitalia (unless you're hiding something...), but from what I understand, men just want to finish as quickly as possible, while women want to make sex last as long as possible without getting sore.

Nah, women want to orgasm, it just either takes longer or they're on their second round. As long as you're still wet and horny you can keep going and going.

 

[2crudedudes]

Nah, women want to orgasm, it just either takes longer or they're on their second round. As long as you're still wet and horny you can keep going and going.

So you'd have no problem with a quick orgasm then?

Nope. Means I can sneak in another one doesn't it?

edit: damn, hit my max limit for today.

no, what if that's ALL you get. Would that be a problem? Or would you prefer a long drawn out one?

 

[CuriousGirl]

So you'd have no problem with a quick orgasm then?

Nope. Means I can sneak in another one doesn't it?

 

[iliketennis]

this advice is terrible. if a girl doesn't know what an orgasm is or feels like then you should not be worried about it. you're just gonna put a ton of pressure on her.

and it's hilarious that a bunch of guys are giving advice to another young guy on what an orgasm feels like FOR A CHICK. like you're going to be able to explain anything at all to this girl, through someone else who obviously is still learning a LOT.

 

[CuriousGirl]

edit: damn, hit my max limit for today.

no, what if that's ALL you get. Would that be a problem? Or would you prefer a long drawn out one?

Oh I didn't realise,

...no it wouldn't be a problem, but the long drawn out ones tend to be better though. Generally speaking (though not always), the longer it takes to orgasm, the more intense/better it will be.