oceanlover1970
Don Juan
I'm new to this discussion board. What is an AFC?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
what is an AFC?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Crank_It_Up
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AFC = Average Fvcking Chump, but I like to think of it as Abused by Females Constantly
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
OOOOOO! That's good Crank It Up! I like that one!
Oceanlover1970~
Somewhere in the depths of the DJ Bible is a list of all the common abbreviations used on this site. And welcome to the site!
BrWnSugaMan
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Duke,
Hey man, do you see that big a$$ sign at the top of your screen that says,
"New Here? We suggest checking out the DJ Bible before posting."
Hey man, do you see that big a$$ sign at the top of your screen that says,
"New Here? We suggest checking out the DJ Bible before posting."
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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