“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What is an AFC
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AFC is changing yourself, your actions, your behavior, into something else in the name of getting women. It is letting an attachment to wanting a woman get in the way of who you are as a person. It is running from your insecurities and hang-ups and letting them get the best of you. It is submitting to fear, and misunderstanding.
Dust 2 Dust
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Average Frustrated Chump- A nice guy/loser who puts women on a pedestal.
AFC = Nice Guy. See below. Bit of a Nice Guy/Jerk rehash but doesn't pull any punches. Found it on another board, written by *shock* *horror* a woman.
Nice guys are ugly! They haven't the air of sensuality about them that bad guys do, because they just haven't had lives.
Nice guys think women are a 'special species' from another planet.
Nice guys suffocate their girlfriends, expecting them to be their lovers, mother, sister, princess, china doll, and the Goddess who brings up the sun in their mornings. They also expect their girlfriends to be their best buddy, because 'real' guys won't have anything to do with the geeks!
Nice guys sit there entranced by their girlfriends as the girlfriend carries on the whole conversation by themselves. Nice guys haven't lived so they have nothing to add to the conversation. Nice guys bore women to death.
Nice guys stare at their girlfriends in total worship awe. Women find it difficult to eat when they are being visually consumed by a staring, mindless dope.
Nice guys quickly look at you when they do a social blunder (such as fart) to see if you caught it. Who cares!
Nice guys pretend to be 'just our friend' and then go home and fantasize about us mothering their 'nice guy' kids.
Nice guys have no real life or interest of their own. They sit around and dream of getting a girlfriend to fill their empty lives.
Nice guys feel so undeserving of 'awesome you' that they make you feel that you have, most assuredly, picked a real loser.
Nice guys think women are porcelain goddesses. Women don't want to have to keep living up to a surreal image. If you belch in front of us we won't break!
Nice guys think that if a woman doesn't want to have anything to do with their boring, empty shell of manlihood, they're stupid *****es who would rather be with a jerk that beats them. Yep, this is every woman's dream.
Nice guys are too STUPID to figure out that woman don't want to be the leader on the dance floor.
Nice guys wear tucked in golf shirts and make a clean, straight part in their hair, exactly two-inches above their left ear. This really turns woman on. So sexy! Why can't Fabio and Brad Pitt take fashion and grooming lessons from nice guys?
Nice guys sit there like passive puppies, waiting for their girl to make all the moves. This is because woman love to feel undesirable.
Nice guys can fool our parents. They are often quoted by the respected elder as being kind, loving, committed. Translation: Gay
Nice guys suck because you can't complain about them to your friends.
Dating a nice guy is like dating yourself. If you like Broccoli, he likes Broccoli. If you hate Jay Leno, he hates Jay Leno. If you order a Shirley Temple, he orders a Shirley Temple. If you are pro capital punishment, he is pro capital punishment. If you think Austin Powers was disgusting he thinks Austin Powers was disgusting. If you prefer Kotex over Tampax...
Nice guys eventually turn into jerks too, so why not just date a jerk right from the start and skip all that insecurity stage?
Nice guys laugh at your jokes...before you've even reached the punchline.
Nice guys quickly get emotionally attached. Sucking the life of you.
Nice guys eagerly show affection. Who can appreciate that of which they didn't have to work for?
Nice guys are gentle, tender, pedal-soft lovers. Woman love this...hopefully her nice guy will wake her up to let her know that he is coming. "I'm not hurting you now, am I hon.?"
Nice guys will never, ever eagerly lust and devour your hot, throbbing body or steamy, sweetened inner core. Nice guys can't hear your body screaming, "hold me, touch me, RAVISH me! **** ME NOW!!!"
Hopefully, your nice guy will eventually turn into a jerk and cheat on you (so someone else can endure his lack of lovemaking skills).
Nice guys will make you feel guilty if you spend a minute anywhere but with them.
Nice guys will buy you flowers. Then ask you all evening long if you liked them.
Nice guys will never actually tell their girlfriends when they don't like what she's doing. Instead, he will get mad about it six months later.
Nice guys are hideously insecure. Nice guys never do for you anything for the simple sake of giving. Everything they do for their girlfriends are like stock investments. The stock is up at Acceptance and Approval. Each gift he gives you, or loving gesture he shows you, is really a guaranteed down payment toward a future of him clinging to you like a drowning man to a life-saver.
Nice guys are confused about romance. They either go overboard and bring a dozen roses to a "lets go for a walk in the park" date...or...they are so unsuave and unsure of themselves that they hang around you, pretending to be your friend. Yep, I just love an unconfident, self-doubting man.
Nice guys are so desperate to please that they have no identity of their own. Ask a nice guy his thoughts on anything. Guess what? He doesn't have any!
Nice guys are easily used. I just love a man I have no respect for.
Nice guys suffer from the "Night in Shining Armor" syndrome. They pick out the sleaziest, "hard luck" cases to rescue. Moral of the story? Wear condoms while sleeping thru the sex act with your nice guy.
Nice guys are so eager to please that they rarely speak up when something bothers them. Thus, they can make their girlfriends feel guilty when they say, "Everything I did, I did for you".
Nice guys truly think that they are making their girlfriends happy by sacrificing their own life, desires, wants, needs, opinions, and identities to that of their girlfriends. They can then claim that "no one will ever love you as much as I do". Translation: "You are such a *****, be grateful I'm willing to put up with you and love you anyway."
Nice guys make you their Life, their only source of happiness. Woman love this burden placed on them.
Nice Guys really don't like themselves. Insecurity is not sexy, it is suffocating, clinging and obsessive. Issues with nice men are unbearable. Issues with jerks are workable.
Nice guys are ugly! They haven't the air of sensuality about them that bad guys do, because they just haven't had lives.
Nice guys think women are a 'special species' from another planet.
Nice guys suffocate their girlfriends, expecting them to be their lovers, mother, sister, princess, china doll, and the Goddess who brings up the sun in their mornings. They also expect their girlfriends to be their best buddy, because 'real' guys won't have anything to do with the geeks!
Nice guys sit there entranced by their girlfriends as the girlfriend carries on the whole conversation by themselves. Nice guys haven't lived so they have nothing to add to the conversation. Nice guys bore women to death.
Nice guys stare at their girlfriends in total worship awe. Women find it difficult to eat when they are being visually consumed by a staring, mindless dope.
Nice guys quickly look at you when they do a social blunder (such as fart) to see if you caught it. Who cares!
Nice guys pretend to be 'just our friend' and then go home and fantasize about us mothering their 'nice guy' kids.
Nice guys have no real life or interest of their own. They sit around and dream of getting a girlfriend to fill their empty lives.
Nice guys feel so undeserving of 'awesome you' that they make you feel that you have, most assuredly, picked a real loser.
Nice guys think women are porcelain goddesses. Women don't want to have to keep living up to a surreal image. If you belch in front of us we won't break!
Nice guys think that if a woman doesn't want to have anything to do with their boring, empty shell of manlihood, they're stupid *****es who would rather be with a jerk that beats them. Yep, this is every woman's dream.
Nice guys are too STUPID to figure out that woman don't want to be the leader on the dance floor.
Nice guys wear tucked in golf shirts and make a clean, straight part in their hair, exactly two-inches above their left ear. This really turns woman on. So sexy! Why can't Fabio and Brad Pitt take fashion and grooming lessons from nice guys?
Nice guys sit there like passive puppies, waiting for their girl to make all the moves. This is because woman love to feel undesirable.
Nice guys can fool our parents. They are often quoted by the respected elder as being kind, loving, committed. Translation: Gay
Nice guys suck because you can't complain about them to your friends.
Dating a nice guy is like dating yourself. If you like Broccoli, he likes Broccoli. If you hate Jay Leno, he hates Jay Leno. If you order a Shirley Temple, he orders a Shirley Temple. If you are pro capital punishment, he is pro capital punishment. If you think Austin Powers was disgusting he thinks Austin Powers was disgusting. If you prefer Kotex over Tampax...
Nice guys eventually turn into jerks too, so why not just date a jerk right from the start and skip all that insecurity stage?
Nice guys laugh at your jokes...before you've even reached the punchline.
Nice guys quickly get emotionally attached. Sucking the life of you.
Nice guys eagerly show affection. Who can appreciate that of which they didn't have to work for?
Nice guys are gentle, tender, pedal-soft lovers. Woman love this...hopefully her nice guy will wake her up to let her know that he is coming. "I'm not hurting you now, am I hon.?"
Nice guys will never, ever eagerly lust and devour your hot, throbbing body or steamy, sweetened inner core. Nice guys can't hear your body screaming, "hold me, touch me, RAVISH me! **** ME NOW!!!"
Hopefully, your nice guy will eventually turn into a jerk and cheat on you (so someone else can endure his lack of lovemaking skills).
Nice guys will make you feel guilty if you spend a minute anywhere but with them.
Nice guys will buy you flowers. Then ask you all evening long if you liked them.
Nice guys will never actually tell their girlfriends when they don't like what she's doing. Instead, he will get mad about it six months later.
Nice guys are hideously insecure. Nice guys never do for you anything for the simple sake of giving. Everything they do for their girlfriends are like stock investments. The stock is up at Acceptance and Approval. Each gift he gives you, or loving gesture he shows you, is really a guaranteed down payment toward a future of him clinging to you like a drowning man to a life-saver.
Nice guys are confused about romance. They either go overboard and bring a dozen roses to a "lets go for a walk in the park" date...or...they are so unsuave and unsure of themselves that they hang around you, pretending to be your friend. Yep, I just love an unconfident, self-doubting man.
Nice guys are so desperate to please that they have no identity of their own. Ask a nice guy his thoughts on anything. Guess what? He doesn't have any!
Nice guys are easily used. I just love a man I have no respect for.
Nice guys suffer from the "Night in Shining Armor" syndrome. They pick out the sleaziest, "hard luck" cases to rescue. Moral of the story? Wear condoms while sleeping thru the sex act with your nice guy.
Nice guys are so eager to please that they rarely speak up when something bothers them. Thus, they can make their girlfriends feel guilty when they say, "Everything I did, I did for you".
Nice guys truly think that they are making their girlfriends happy by sacrificing their own life, desires, wants, needs, opinions, and identities to that of their girlfriends. They can then claim that "no one will ever love you as much as I do". Translation: "You are such a *****, be grateful I'm willing to put up with you and love you anyway."
Nice guys make you their Life, their only source of happiness. Woman love this burden placed on them.
Nice Guys really don't like themselves. Insecurity is not sexy, it is suffocating, clinging and obsessive. Issues with nice men are unbearable. Issues with jerks are workable.
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Listen, I don't have time to tell you all how wrong you are, but don't give this guy the impression that he can't be a nice guy. Sh!t I am one of the nicest people I know, and I probably get twice as many chicks as you do.
Listen dude, you can be a nice guy. Fvck, you can be the nicest dude on the planet if you want and still get girls, so please don't get that impression from these two.
Blitz defines an AFC well.
But know that an AFC is not a nice guy who puts girls on a pedestal.
I could write a 5000 word response here easily, but I have two papers and a final due for tomorrow, so if you all want to flame me I won't be able to respond until Saturday. But if you want to try to tell me that I am wrong I will be glad to tell you how it is when I have some more time on my hands.
Listen dude, you can be a nice guy. Fvck, you can be the nicest dude on the planet if you want and still get girls, so please don't get that impression from these two.
Blitz defines an AFC well.
But know that an AFC is not a nice guy who puts girls on a pedestal.
I could write a 5000 word response here easily, but I have two papers and a final due for tomorrow, so if you all want to flame me I won't be able to respond until Saturday. But if you want to try to tell me that I am wrong I will be glad to tell you how it is when I have some more time on my hands.
AFC = uncertainty, thats all.
MikeYikes is right - the "nicest" guys I know get the very hottest chicks. They really do.
Its because: They are certain and committed to ANY action they take.
You dont have to play games, give **** tests, use strategies and run "patterns."
You can be the nicest, most romantic, most giving guy ever, as long as you do it with CONVICTION, you do it with SELF-BELIEF, you do it with A SENSE OF HUMOUR and you do it with STYLE and DARING.
MikeYikes is right - the "nicest" guys I know get the very hottest chicks. They really do.
Its because: They are certain and committed to ANY action they take.
You dont have to play games, give **** tests, use strategies and run "patterns."
You can be the nicest, most romantic, most giving guy ever, as long as you do it with CONVICTION, you do it with SELF-BELIEF, you do it with A SENSE OF HUMOUR and you do it with STYLE and DARING.
Walden
Master Don Juan
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The attention w-ore who wrote that novel ...
... could use an editor! God, women rattle on and on. Interesting diatribe on "nice guys" but has she ever heard of the term long-winded?
Women are so oblivious to their attention wh-re ways.
Example: Called a gal I knew last night who lives FAR away from me and she procedes to do the Coors Light (or Bud, whatever) commerical where she goes on and on and on about trivial stuff. Luckily all I could think about was her nice boobies and booty, so that kept me interested. Twenty minutes into the conversation she asks me how I'm doing. By then I'm either asleep or have a massive hard-on thinking about doing her.
... could use an editor! God, women rattle on and on. Interesting diatribe on "nice guys" but has she ever heard of the term long-winded?
Women are so oblivious to their attention wh-re ways.
Example: Called a gal I knew last night who lives FAR away from me and she procedes to do the Coors Light (or Bud, whatever) commerical where she goes on and on and on about trivial stuff. Luckily all I could think about was her nice boobies and booty, so that kept me interested. Twenty minutes into the conversation she asks me how I'm doing. By then I'm either asleep or have a massive hard-on thinking about doing her.
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