"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is an AFC? lol

woogalie

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Ive searched everywhere for a definition... or is it an unspoken term that DJs just know? lol :rock: :woo: :rock:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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average frustrated chump. Someone who sucks with girls, buys them flowers on the first date, kisses their asses, etc. Do a search for Most AFC moment or something like that in the archive. Thats basically a huge thread where everybody says what not to do, by giving examples of themselves being retards basically. should be a sticky. read, read everything in that thread. Its the best thing you can do for yourself right off. You gotta know what not to do before you can learn what to do in my opinion.
 

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oh thank god I am not an AFC!!!! Thank you ValleyDJing. I did a search for AFC on the forumns and I was surprised that I couldnt really find much... Definitly should be stickied if it aint cause getting out of AFC mode is step #1 to DJing in my opinion.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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