"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is a PLAYERHATER?

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hey all,
I'm just curious, what exactly is a playerhater? What does it mean? I get pissed off, resentful and bitter occasionally when I see studs chatting up the babes and making them laugh. I gotta restrain myself from punching their fvckin' heads in at times. Am I a playerhater? :confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wolfie

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That's called jealousy and frustration. You can make up all the names for it you want, but that's what it boils down to. How you deal with it is up to you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by wolfie
That's called jealousy and frustration. You can make up all the names for it you want, but that's what it boils down to. How you deal with it is up to you.
Nah not necessarily... Playerhaters are oftne people that don't approve with a players methods and handling. Fvcking multiple girls, using them, stealing girlfriends etc.
 

learningtopimp

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I feel that way sometimes also. I actually do well with girls but at the same time I still have a lot to learn and it's not always easy when I get rejected and then have to see some other ****er right there macking on a girl. But I am learning to put that aside and try to have a good time and hit on other girls until I find one that I like. The solution is a gradual process, as you get better you will envy other guys less because you will be more confident of your own position.
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Nah not necessarily... Playerhaters are oftne people that don't approve with a players methods and handling. Fvcking multiple girls, using them, stealing girlfriends etc.
yeah but this guy said he gets angry just watching a guy TALK to a girl, not fvcking and dumping multiple girls. That's just plain jealousy and frustration.
 

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its pretty obvious no? :confused:

A PH is an AFC who is having the worst luck with women and getting angry at other guys who are succeeding

the funny thing is, Im no "playa", I have been in situations sometimes when I have good rapport with a girl, then have another guy get pissed at me or Cuckblock

but put yourself in that situation, if you finally met a girl you liked and she liked you, could you imagine some dude who gets pissed at you thinking you are some "playa", when this was a rare occassion for you??
 
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Originally posted by Mr.Hash wid da Stash
hey all,
I'm just curious, what exactly is a playerhater? What does it mean? I get pissed off, resentful and bitter occasionally when I see studs chatting up the babes and making them laugh. I gotta restrain myself from punching their fvckin' heads in at times. Am I a playerhater? :confused:
1. Don't hate the player and don't hate the game!

2. You just sound jealous. When in Rome?...hmmm I think your from another non english speaking country so that means JOIN the game. Learn to be like those guys who chat it up with the ladies.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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