"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is a man?

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A real man is:

giving
caring
strong
thoughtful
repsectful
confident
hard working
responsible
(funny)
(warm)
(charasmatic)
(intelligent)


I cant think of anything else at the moment..im sure there are words to add.

some sports celebrities I can think of that are good men, atleast from public perception:

John Wooden
Kurt Warner
Tony Dungy
Albert Pujols


again my brain is cramped.

I see and hear these guys on tv or interviews..

they sometimes refer to god.

but mostly refer to there families or wives as there inspirations...

the problem I see here is for one grown men here..if your over the age of 18 your a man by default..complaining, whining and bytching about women...BOO HOO.

my situation is diff then most here..

let me exaplain what makes you not a man:

calling in for work when ur not really sick
doing drugs and lying to your family or friends about it.(or hiding it)
lying
cheating
stealing
decieving(if you arent really confident and you use SS tips to get a women your decieving her)
(if you lead a women on for sex, knowing she wants more, your not only a deciever, your a manipulator and liar and mos def not a man)

instead of tricking her to be attracted to you...why not try ATTRACTING HER WITH YOU.

maybe your smile, thoughts, voice, strong will, confidence, passions, your ability to kiss, entertain, charm..it goes on and on.

just rememeber what a real man is...its goes far beyond landing a quick lay or having confidence.

happy holidays
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lay off the eggnog, bro.

anyways, good question, confusing and incoherent post.

as a matter of fact though, there is no real answer to it.

i guess to me being a real man has to do with being true to yourself and your word, being courageous enough to follow your destiny and your dreams, and never lying to yourself and those who have deserved your trust.

god, family, etc don't have much to do with being a real man.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21


let me exaplain what makes you not a man:

calling in for work when ur not really sick
doing drugs and lying to your family or friends about it.(or hiding it)
lying
:rolleyes: You really are a very strange lady.

How to be a man? Just do the opposite of the sh!t you dribble would be a good start.
 

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You really are a very strange lady.

How to be a man? Just do the opposite of the sh!t you dribble would be a good start.

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your a sad person....whats more sad is that you influence afc'S here and they listen to a fraud like you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Juan and only

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Originally posted by Android
a man is a human with a penis.

That rules you out then :crackup: :crackup: *laughs at his poor joke*
 

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Originally posted by The Juan and only
That rules you out then :crackup: :crackup: *laughs at his poor joke*
thats right... because im an android.
 

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Originally posted by Android
thats right... because im an android.
Are you saying you don't have some kind of robotic android penis?

just glue on a vibrator. you can choose the the length and size..or get a socket installed so that they're interchangable.

There's some quality advice for ya right there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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