"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What is a man?

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A real man is:

giving
caring
strong
thoughtful
repsectful
confident
hard working
responsible
(funny)
(warm)
(charasmatic)
(intelligent)


I cant think of anything else at the moment..im sure there are words to add.

some sports celebrities I can think of that are good men, atleast from public perception:

John Wooden
Kurt Warner
Tony Dungy
Albert Pujols


again my brain is cramped.

I see and hear these guys on tv or interviews..

they sometimes refer to god.

but mostly refer to there families or wives as there inspirations...

the problem I see here is for one grown men here..if your over the age of 18 your a man by default..complaining, whining and bytching about women...BOO HOO.

my situation is diff then most here..

let me exaplain what makes you not a man:

calling in for work when ur not really sick
doing drugs and lying to your family or friends about it.(or hiding it)
lying
cheating
stealing
decieving(if you arent really confident and you use SS tips to get a women your decieving her)
(if you lead a women on for sex, knowing she wants more, your not only a deciever, your a manipulator and liar and mos def not a man)

instead of tricking her to be attracted to you...why not try ATTRACTING HER WITH YOU.

maybe your smile, thoughts, voice, strong will, confidence, passions, your ability to kiss, entertain, charm..it goes on and on.

just rememeber what a real man is...its goes far beyond landing a quick lay or having confidence.

happy holidays
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lay off the eggnog, bro.

anyways, good question, confusing and incoherent post.

as a matter of fact though, there is no real answer to it.

i guess to me being a real man has to do with being true to yourself and your word, being courageous enough to follow your destiny and your dreams, and never lying to yourself and those who have deserved your trust.

god, family, etc don't have much to do with being a real man.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21


let me exaplain what makes you not a man:

calling in for work when ur not really sick
doing drugs and lying to your family or friends about it.(or hiding it)
lying
:rolleyes: You really are a very strange lady.

How to be a man? Just do the opposite of the sh!t you dribble would be a good start.
 

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You really are a very strange lady.

How to be a man? Just do the opposite of the sh!t you dribble would be a good start.

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your a sad person....whats more sad is that you influence afc'S here and they listen to a fraud like you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Android
a man is a human with a penis.

That rules you out then :crackup: :crackup: *laughs at his poor joke*
 

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Originally posted by The Juan and only
That rules you out then :crackup: :crackup: *laughs at his poor joke*
thats right... because im an android.
 

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Originally posted by Android
thats right... because im an android.
Are you saying you don't have some kind of robotic android penis?

just glue on a vibrator. you can choose the the length and size..or get a socket installed so that they're interchangable.

There's some quality advice for ya right there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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