What is a "Ladies' man?"

[jafyk]

Ok, people. I've almost decided not to post anymore as I don't get much response but I'm in the middle of a face book IM with the lady I met this weekend at a wedding reception. She keeps drilling me "I heard you are a ladies' man is this true? " I tell her I enjoy the company of beautiful and intellignent women and ask her about her likes. She tells me. Then she asks me about me. I tell her I'm arts inclined and like spending time with people, that if she wants to know more. She can make out time for us to spend together. She tells me "You are indeed a ladies' man" and "You are good!" I'm kinda confused? What's going on here please. I can post background info later if anyone is interested.

Background info
I met Sally at a wedding reception. She came with a soccer acquaintance of mine (George). So, we sat next to each other (George between us) George introduced us and all 3 of us were talking. She was asking me questions and George was just making ****y (if he intended it to be so) bordering on rude remarks to her. Anyway, at some point in their conversation they just burst out "We are not dating" and I thought "ok, why are you telling me this?" I thought they were joking. I ask them and they said they were not dating. George says "Give her your number" and I ignore the comment. So, when it was time to get our food I just talked some more her. Then Sally and I went to get drinks at which point I gave her my phone to enter her number. We got back to the table and after a while I asked her to come outside with me. She did and we talked for a lil bit. She asked what I was doing later. I told her going to the club. She said she had to go to a friend's birthday party to let her know when I'm at the club and she may come out later. I texted her when I was at the club. She responded once but not again. 2 days later she adds me on facebook and that's when I made this thread.

 

[KingofHearts]

Ok, people. I've almost decided not to post anymore as I don't get much response but I'm in the middle of a face book IM with the lady I met this weekend at a wedding reception. She keeps drilling me "I heard you are a ladies' man is this true? " I tell her I enjoy the company of beautiful and intellignent women and ask her about her likes. She tells me. Then she asks me about me. I tell her I'm arts inclined and like spending time with people, that if she wants to know more. She can make out time for us to spend together. She tells me "You are indeed a ladies' man" and "You are good!" I'm kinda confused? What's going on here please. I can post background info later if anyone is interested.

Maybe background info would help so we could see if she's really interested or if she's just busting your balls.

Sounds pretty good so far. Just play along. Act like you know you are a player without saying "i'm a player". Let her draw her own conclusions while you continue to be vague and mysterious. I realize that you're just talking to this girl on facebook, but in real life girls like this spin themselves and it doesn't take much to keep them intersted.

 

[CuriousGirl]

A guy who gets on well with the ladies, a guy to be wary of.


EDIT:
her response of "You're good!" is her thinking, 'wow he is good with the ladies, he's starting to attract me, I'll be even more cautious as he's doing this with every woman he meets'. Unless she's just looking for no-strings sex, then she'll be thinking you'll do.

 

[Speculator E]

Don't worry about it. Just do her and move on to the next one.

 

[jafyk]

Ah! My head is starting to hurt reading these responses. So, I'm a guy who's good with the ladies (isn't that what women want) and now it sounds like it's a problem?

 

[ArcBound]

Dude is she hot? If she is... you DO realize your friend just winged for you. It sounds like he set you guys up. She also "heard" you were a ladies man probably from none other than George and that's her first impression of you. Well I say don't let her down jafyk

 

[jafyk]

Dude is she hot? If she is... you DO realize your friend just winged for you. It sounds like he set you guys up. She also "heard" you were a ladies man probably from none other than George and that's her first impression of you. Well I say don't let her down jafyk

When we chatted I asked her if she'd like to hang out and she says she would and that it would be sometime this weekend. Yet she won't give me a specific day when she will be available so I can plan stuff for us to do. I'm about to next her.