"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What Is A Good Way To Gain Trust From A Woman?

dadmonson

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The guys that get laid are obviously the ones that women are attracted to, but there is another component at work as well. That component is the trust factor. How can you develop trust rather quickly so that you can f*** the girl rather quickly?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GuanYu

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Trust is something that takes time to develop for other people. Quality women aren't quick to trust someone immediately.

When it comes to women, the most important thing is to make them feel comfortable around you. You make her feel special and once they let their innate guard down they'll open up to you. From there trust can be developed.

As far as getting laid goes, it's not about gaining trust to get in the pants. Women have sex all of the time with men they don't particularly trust, but they turn them on. Trust isn't a prerequisite for getting into all women's pants.

This could be the case with women that actually have self esteem and don't just let anyone in between her legs.

If you're out to just get laid you may want to learn how to read signals for promiscuous women and go from there.
 

William Vass

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I believe its called rapport.. just through normal conversation and life stories you talk about portray that you are a normal person with similar beliefs/values and she can feel comfortable knowing that you aren't a weirdo.

Stories do a lot, and when you can manage to convey humour, high value, healthy instincts (protector of loved ones, always there for your friends), and even vulnerabilities (childhood stories of being afraid of the dark or losing your goldfish) , she will see that you are a genuine person and will feel very connected/comfortable with you. Make sure you aren't bragging about it, they are just elements and parts of the story.
 
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