"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What is a good way to ask a girl..........

Basketba1100

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What is a good way to ask a female to be my girlfriend? I been talking to a lovely female for about 4 months or more.....and we are getting closer and closer. I want her to be my girlfriend, but I wanna ask her in a good way. You guys got any ideas?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ_in_making

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The Juan and only

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I can see this going very badly. But hopefully it won't.

To answer your question:

Asking her to be your girlfriend doesn't sound like a great idea to me. I suggest you find the right moment....and then just go in for the kiss - and make it a good'n;)
 
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jigga23

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when it comes to decisions like that a girl usually should be the one to initiate. It puts you in a better position when you are in the relationship. Just think about doing less is better dont try to hard
 
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