"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What is a DJ about??

wudiez

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Is being a Dj.. Just a person who plays alot of girls. Why do we strive to become a DJ, why do we hang around these forums and post, about what mindset to be in. Maybe i'm just an afc. But I've been trying this Dj'ing stuff along time.

When i get good. It just feels like i'm playing girls. And from time to time, i have to change my mindset and my beliefs in order to attract a certain girl.

Its getting tiring and pointless.

Or is being a DJ just about happiness. I see so many people posting about their strife and how to get out of it, with the ways of a DJ. But will this make them happy anyway? I remember the times, when i wasnt focused on attracting a girl. Or having a certain mindset and I was naturally happy. And the girls just seemed extremely interested in me.

They'd do things to be with me. They'd be infatuated, they'd talk to their friends about me. I dont get it.

Why are we all striving to become DJ's??

Is there one certain mindset and foundation we can stick too..

Or is happiness the answer...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ER!C L!VE

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Personally, I could care less about what a 'dj' is or is not. To me, it's merely a word that some guys blew into something that it isn't and then they latched onto it in order to feel like they belong to something. I won't name names, but you know who these guys are.

It makes them feel like they're bettering their lives and shyt....just like the words 'Christian' or 'Muslem' or 'Hindu'.

Shyt, I even bought into it for nearly a year.

Think about it for a sec, man. AFC = "Sinner", DJ = "Christian" or whatever religion. And you come here to belong. You learn the 'gospel' from such saints as Pook and Fingers.

It's also a great way to get people to purchase what you are selling. Many good sales places like AMWAY, DS-MAX and any other multi-level marketing schemes have their own lingo and circle of support so people stick around and the members keep spending their money.

I'm not saying this this is a MLM site, but the use of the cult-like atmosphere is a great sales tool. People just keep coming back and buying stuff, until they finally figure it out years later.

Do what you want man, just meet girls and have fun. If/when you run into an obstical, you can come here for some advice.

I only come here to give and get advice and share my experiences...

Good luck!

Eric
 

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Originally posted by wudiez
Is being a Dj.. Just a person who plays alot of girls. Why do we strive to become a DJ, why do we hang around these forums and post, about what mindset to be in. Maybe i'm just an afc. But I've been trying this Dj'ing stuff along time.

When i get good. It just feels like i'm playing girls. And from time to time, i have to change my mindset and my beliefs in order to attract a certain girl.

Its getting tiring and pointless.

Or is being a DJ just about happiness. I see so many people posting about their strife and how to get out of it, with the ways of a DJ. But will this make them happy anyway? I remember the times, when i wasnt focused on attracting a girl. Or having a certain mindset and I was naturally happy. And the girls just seemed extremely interested in me.

They'd do things to be with me. They'd be infatuated, they'd talk to their friends about me. I dont get it.

Why are we all striving to become DJ's??

Is there one certain mindset and foundation we can stick too..

Or is happiness the answer...
You're ready for the Mature Man board.
 
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