"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wHAT IS A "COLD READ"

trd323

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As the subject asks?

Also, if you are on a date witha girl(usually 2 hrs); What do you do besides C+F and busting on her, do you guys run routines on her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cold reading is telling the girl something about herself she doesn't realise. IE. Palm Reading, "you have a fiery passion..."

That kinda ****.
 

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ok, can you list some more cold readings because I want to try the tension test on a chic tonight.
 

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Cold Reading is actually the act of performing a psychic reading. It is the ability to tell a person things about themselves that are specific that only they would know. It doesnt matter what prop you use (i.e. tarot cards, palm reading, etc.) or no prop at all (John Edward's TV appearances), you are doing the same thing. Props are not relevant nor necessary, but they do make it a more enjoyable experience for the person recieving the reading. The actual props themselves don't contribute anything to the reading (so when you do tarot cards, you aren't actually looking for clues in the cards themselves, you're just making b.s. up).

For example, when doing cold readings I have successfuly told people about the photographs they have left unorganized and neglected, toys they have kept from their childhood, and the extraordinary circumstances that led to them getting their first jobs.

Doing a cold reading is perhaps one of the most challenging things a person can do, so I would not recommend learning it half assed just so you can run a lame routine. If you are going to get into it, get into it full force and do it because you want to learn a really cool skill.

Pick up Ian Rowland's book on the subject, available at www.ianrowland.com , and you will learn some of the greatest cold reading techniques ever.

Practice enough and you will be good at it.
 
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