Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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wHAT IS A "COLD READ"

trd323

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As the subject asks?

Also, if you are on a date witha girl(usually 2 hrs); What do you do besides C+F and busting on her, do you guys run routines on her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cold reading is telling the girl something about herself she doesn't realise. IE. Palm Reading, "you have a fiery passion..."

That kinda ****.
 

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ok, can you list some more cold readings because I want to try the tension test on a chic tonight.
 

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Cold Reading is actually the act of performing a psychic reading. It is the ability to tell a person things about themselves that are specific that only they would know. It doesnt matter what prop you use (i.e. tarot cards, palm reading, etc.) or no prop at all (John Edward's TV appearances), you are doing the same thing. Props are not relevant nor necessary, but they do make it a more enjoyable experience for the person recieving the reading. The actual props themselves don't contribute anything to the reading (so when you do tarot cards, you aren't actually looking for clues in the cards themselves, you're just making b.s. up).

For example, when doing cold readings I have successfuly told people about the photographs they have left unorganized and neglected, toys they have kept from their childhood, and the extraordinary circumstances that led to them getting their first jobs.

Doing a cold reading is perhaps one of the most challenging things a person can do, so I would not recommend learning it half assed just so you can run a lame routine. If you are going to get into it, get into it full force and do it because you want to learn a really cool skill.

Pick up Ian Rowland's book on the subject, available at www.ianrowland.com , and you will learn some of the greatest cold reading techniques ever.

Practice enough and you will be good at it.
 
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