Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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-they prolude breasts
-will try to draw attention if you ignore them or when you don't see them
-they always remember your name

in a pub/club:
-they come and stand close to you
-they look at you and then they talk about you and they are laughing a lot.
-they start to dance more extravert when you look at them
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sometimes they admire you from afar but but when you come close they act aloof.

they touch other guys in your presence.

when they walk past you and you avnt notcied them passing by they make thier foot steps louder to get your attenshion.

when they see you comming them they whipp out thier phone or start playing with thier phone to call whoever, this can be stupid on thier part .
 

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They shove your head between their breasts and ask you to hum the Star Spangled Banner.
 

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Originally posted by Lothario
Massage your feet after a long day.
Massage your muscles after you work out.
Buy you clothes.

This one definitely happens: They take lots of pictures of the two of you together. Also a sure sign of a girl liking you.

They tease you.


Nice list!

these are good.i ask a women if she will clean the tow jam from in between my toes. if she says yes and actually starts to do motion like she is going to do it. i stop her and tell her that is ok. it sounds nasty but that is a good way.
 

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she will:

- sit very close next to you
- try to look perfect around you
- walk past you often wearing cute outfits (or other ways of teasing)
- ask you what you did last weekend, or this weekend
- ignore you, then rub up against you, go back to ignoring you
- be very touchy/feely/loving toward you in both private and public places
- let you control the coversation
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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couple more:

-asks what you're doing on the weekend

i think it's their little tool to find out if you're dating or even an exciting person.

-inquires about your passions/interests/hobbies

pretty self explanatory. she wants to find out more about you.
 

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Originally posted by Blaaaaat
Great, I had almost all the signs with one girl. Within three weeks I've systematicly erased those signs, still don't know how i did that...
Hmmmm...I guess you could ask her, otherwise you will probably never know.
 

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Originally posted by cohen
she will:

- sit very close next to you
- try to look perfect around you
- walk past you often wearing cute outfits (or other ways of teasing)
- ask you what you did last weekend, or this weekend
- ignore you, then rub up against you, go back to ignoring you
- be very touchy/feely/loving toward you in both private and public places
- let you control the coversation
If she is really comfortable with you she won't care how she looks ie no make up and just in casual gear.
 
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tomazu said:
- they laugh at every stupid joke make

- whenever you mention you like something or you want to go/travel somewhere after a short time-period they like it themselves!

- sometimes they feel a little bit insecurity when in your presence

- they get all aroused when in your presence

- they make time for you even if they are very busy!

ciao tomazu
She does ALL of this and a lot of things metioned in the first post and then says I don't like you in "that" way. If we just go out it would be just a "friend's date". So I started hitting on one of her friends :D.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lothario said:
This one definitely happens: They take lots of pictures of the two of you together. Also a sure sign of a girl liking you.
Haha, This has been happening with a girl I'm gaming.. I try to take a picture of her with my phone and she says no.. and she says "let's take a picture together" so we just go ahead and take pictures together.
 

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skeeloo said:
sometimes they admire you from afar but but when you come close they act aloof.

they touch other guys in your presence.
I know exactly what you mean. A girl, whom I had some intimate history with, would do did this exact same act in our uni lectres. I would see her grinning love sickingly and stare at me from a afar then instantly look away once I caught her eye. Then, whilst sitting opposite me, she would then constantly touch up some guy just to get a reaction out of me. Best thing to do is ignore women like that and leave them well alone. Women with REAL interest won't resort to those tactics to get a man's attention. They'll keep it real.
 

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They call you to come over when their parents are out ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yo Troops!

One thing I wanted to add was that Interested women are PERSISTENT and INSISTENT. A woman who REALLY wants to get with you will KEEP making her intentions known. She will NOT take a SUBTLE "no" for an answer. Instead, she will only be dissuade from her pursuit of you by a more DIRECT "no".

And hell, sometmes NOT even THEN...I think they call them "Stalkers"...lol



The Fight ain't over til you WIN, soldiers!
 

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They respond to your calls and ims. They stalk you to a cerain degree. It's very very obvious to tell when a girl in interested because they make it very clear with things like, "come over." lol
 

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i like the one's where they give you a big cheessy smile... for no appearent reason caz maybe there in awe at how you look...(they think your hot) when they do this they become extremely easy to pick up... tell me if im crzy poeple
 

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penkitten said:
they make your favorite dinner...
interested women know the way to a mans heart is thru his tummy:)
Sometimes. Mainly the way to my heart is through my pe....nevermind. :whistle:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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