"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What in the world?!?!

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All throughout my time partying and hanging out with friends involving drinks and so on when people "hook-up" they always seems to be some bitterness between the two the day after along the lines of (from the girls side),"Oh I was drunk,I had no clue what I was doing/He took advantage of me." I'm posting this to let you guys know that chicks aren't stupid,don't let anyone fool you,they know what they are doing.

So I was at work talking to this hb6.5(she could lose weight),we were having a plain conversatin then she mentioned that she is going to a party after work;

hb;"Yeah I'm going to a party after work."
bw;"No way,sounds like fun. I bet your one of those that hangs naked from shandaliers(sp?) just swinging around huh."
hb;"No."(Hits me on the arm)"
bw;"Hahahaha,alright then what do you do at parties then?"
hb;"I drink and hook up with guys."(Says it as if it means nothing to her)
bw;"Wow your pretty honest. So you drink to hook up with guys?"(This one caught me off gaurd I wouldn't have ever expected a chick to come out and say this)
hb;"Yeah it's kinda what I do."
bw;(With a smirk)"Alright then,have fun. I'm heading back to work now,bye."
hb;"Bye"

For anyone that ever has any doubts about a girls actions/plans when she is drink think again,they know what they are getting into.

Which brings to another point,what in the world is wrong with women these days???????????
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm not sure what your point is?

Chicks drink becuase they PLAN on hooking up with guys, but use the drinking as an excuse to blame it on the guy? Well yeah, of course. That way they can hook up but not be called a slvvt (well not as soon anyway).

Or is it that you were surprised a girl could sound so casual about sex? If so, honestly, what she said to you wasn't really all that shocking, imo. I suppose if you've NEVER heard a girl be upfront about anything to do with sex it can sound shocking the first time you hear it. But bro, let me tell you, chicks can be WAY more 'crude' than that. Eg, Me and some buddies were hanging out at this chick's house, and somehow the topic of a "hard azz" (on a guy, related to bodybuilding) came up, and this chick there (~7, good bod) goes a hard azz, what I am gonna do with a hard azz, give me a hard kok. That one shocked me, even though I'd heard similar stuff over the years before it.
 

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People on this site need to spend more time interacting with women. Ofcourse girls like to go out and hook up with guys. It's called socializing, and is the basic form of human interaction. Do you expect them to go home and bake apple pie and knit every night? Girls want to hook up with guys and guys want to hook up with girls. When I'm out working and I'm talking to girls one of the first things they ask me is "will there be cute guys there?" Why is tabboo and suprising that they think like this?
 

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danielzxc said:
I'm not sure what your point is?
My point is to open the eyes of people who don't think women know what they are doing when they drink. It seems often time when my friends hook up with a girl when they are drunk that the women starts using the excuse "I was drunk,I didn't know what I was doing" and it's used all the time......BULL,they know what they are doing. That's what I'm tyring to get across here(my mistake if there was any confusion).
 

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blinkwatt said:
My point is to open the eyes of people who don't think women know what they are doing when they drink. It seems often time when my friends hook up with a girl when they are drunk that the women starts using the excuse "I was drunk,I didn't know what I was doing" and it's used all the time......BULL,they know what they are doing. That's what I'm tyring to get across here(my mistake if there was any confusion).
Oh yeah, for sure man. They just say that so you don't think they are slvvts.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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danielzxc said:
Oh yeah, for sure man. They just say that so you don't think they are slvvts.
Daniel, you hypocrite!! Read your own words below - replace the word hor for slut and it describes you!!

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So what if they are hors? Can YOU pick them up? No? Ah, so that's why you're bitter. I get it.
 

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Reminds me of the old joke:

Q: "What's the difference between a slut and a bytch?"

A: "A slut f***s everyone. A bytch f***s everyone except you"
 

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Daniel, you hypocrite!! Read your own words below - replace the word hor for slut and it describes you!!
How is that hypocritical?

PS And anyway, I'm a guy, so who cares if people think I'm a "slut"? (And dude, if you're a guy and you are known for sleeping with plenty of women, the word is "stud" not "slut" anyway.)
 
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danielzxc said:
How is that hypocritical?

PS And anyway, I'm a guy, so who cares if people think I'm a "slut"? (And dude, if you're a guy and you are known for sleeping with plenty of women, the word is "stud" not "slut" anyway.)
You are misinterpreting my words - you called me bitter for calling women "hors" - so I turned your own words against you for calling women sluts!

And No, men cannot be called hors or sluts - our natures were created differently then women -- we are in the predator role and merely doing our jobs by pursuing women!! Feminist think women can do and "be" the same as men so they told women to do what men do (sexually) and thus they became our hors in the last 40 years - and so we must play the pimp role to balance the new women's role as hors!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
You are misinterpreting my words - you called me bitter for calling women "hors" - so I turned your own words against you for calling women sluts!
Well the tone of your post suggested that PimpIseasy's lay wasn't anything special because the girl he fvvcked was hor. I was just saying so what, he laid her, who cares if she's a hor.

So it's not that I had anything against calling women hors (well, the ones who are hors anyway), it' s just that I thought it was silly to bash a guy 'cos he didn't lay a respectable woman but settled for a hor.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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danielzxc said:
Well the tone of your post suggested that PimpIseasy's lay wasn't anything special because the girl he fvvcked was hor. I was just saying so what, he laid her, who cares if she's a hor.

So it's not that I had anything against calling women hors (well, the ones who are hors anyway), it' s just that I thought it was silly to bash a guy 'cos he didn't lay a respectable woman but settled for a hor.
Pimpin is another dude who was just banned and he likes alot of attention - and calls everybody bad names - sometimes people post fake lays to get attention!

All these women that are opening their legs to those who are not their husbands are hors - this is not a great revelation! You have prostituting hors - porno hors - slutty hors - ONS hors - and plain ole She's my "girlfriend" hors!!! They are all hors nonetheless!!
 
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