speedo_meme
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ok I need you guys advice and be straight with it. I've been dating my neighbor's sister for about 2 weeks. She's just broken up with a 4 month boyfriend, so it's obvious I was in part a rebound. But she's fine as a mofo so I didn't care. Sad thing is I fell for her quick. the first week we couldn't keep our hands off each other and then we went with my neighbor and his wife to the beach for a weekend (which proved to be mistake seeing we weren't a couple). Well you expect some kind of respect for each other seeing how i spent alot of money on her, but fri. night her and my friends wife start flirting alot with guys at the bar, which was ok, but then it got kind of touchy feely because they were drunk, like me and my pal. Well we kinda made a big deal out of it instead of being men and acting like we didn't care.....we should have started flirting with other girls there....but woulda shoulda coulda....whatever...it's done now
well the rest of the weekend got weird......i knew something was wrong but i didn't know for sure.....my buddy's wife assured me that "Jamie" did indeed like me very much and was very interested, but it didn't radiate in my opinion...so i kept on like nothing was wrong, actually had a pretty good time the rest of the weekend, but nothing really romantic happened between us....it was like that light had been shut off, the spark was gone....
let me add that her interest level was soaring the week before, so take that into consideration.....
on the way back, we have "the conversation" ..... we might have rushed it, blah blah, she doesn't want to jump from guy to guy, doesn't want a serious bf that soon after a relationship, she has her guard up, u know the drill.....i was sort of defensive at first, then played it cool like that was fine, even though i was extremely pissed because 1) i payed for her whole trip 2) i really liked her and it was hard for me not to show it.....it was one of those rides where it seemed we just needed some time apart....
well we get back, i drop her off, we kiss for a second, but it's not an extremely optimistic goodbye in my opinion....
well she lives 1 hr. from me so i'm driving back thinking i screwed up with a great girl because i didn't play the challenge card right and moved too fast....
well she calls me that night twice to see if i made it in ok, and the conversation is upbeat and she's laughing at everything i say, then says she wished i had stayed the night....
we had planned to do something for her birthday this weekend, and she told my neighbors wife she still wants to....the dilemma is this.....
should i wait to call her? has her interest suck below the point of no return? or should i simply not call or contact her at all?
i know i seem like a wimp about this, but i really fell for this girl, i really don't know why.....any help or opinions would be appreciate....
well the rest of the weekend got weird......i knew something was wrong but i didn't know for sure.....my buddy's wife assured me that "Jamie" did indeed like me very much and was very interested, but it didn't radiate in my opinion...so i kept on like nothing was wrong, actually had a pretty good time the rest of the weekend, but nothing really romantic happened between us....it was like that light had been shut off, the spark was gone....
let me add that her interest level was soaring the week before, so take that into consideration.....
on the way back, we have "the conversation" ..... we might have rushed it, blah blah, she doesn't want to jump from guy to guy, doesn't want a serious bf that soon after a relationship, she has her guard up, u know the drill.....i was sort of defensive at first, then played it cool like that was fine, even though i was extremely pissed because 1) i payed for her whole trip 2) i really liked her and it was hard for me not to show it.....it was one of those rides where it seemed we just needed some time apart....
well we get back, i drop her off, we kiss for a second, but it's not an extremely optimistic goodbye in my opinion....
well she lives 1 hr. from me so i'm driving back thinking i screwed up with a great girl because i didn't play the challenge card right and moved too fast....
well she calls me that night twice to see if i made it in ok, and the conversation is upbeat and she's laughing at everything i say, then says she wished i had stayed the night....
we had planned to do something for her birthday this weekend, and she told my neighbors wife she still wants to....the dilemma is this.....
should i wait to call her? has her interest suck below the point of no return? or should i simply not call or contact her at all?
i know i seem like a wimp about this, but i really fell for this girl, i really don't know why.....any help or opinions would be appreciate....
