"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WHAT IN GOD'S NAME? Disturbing E-mail from my Old Man (Long read)

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HeyPachuco!

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Well after reading thoroughly myself, a good few times, I can see some of the bad traits of my old man which my mother had warned me about, reason I edited it was because, hes the type of guy to be lurking on here (mature man forum), probably before I knew a squirt about pickup, seduction or inner-game etc and started browsing on it. lol.. what the heck, you guys are like bro's to me on here, eff it.

Key: (Names are replaced with Kinship) Uncle, Uncle's Wife, Aunty, Cousin

My old man writing to my Uncle,

" Further to our telephone conversation on Monday 15th February 2010, as you know Facebook is an internet networking application designed to help people re-establish contact with lost family & friends.

(Facebook pic of my Long-gone Grandpa and Grandma on my dad's side on my Uncle's newly-wedded wife's Profile)

While responding to a recent Facebook message I was shocked to find a portrait of our Father and Mother with the name of your wife *Uncles Wife* underneath. I voiced my concern that this was very disrespectful and in poor taste. As pointed out there is no logic behind her doing this, if someone was searching for *Uncles Wife/Her Surname* they would never associate her name with the portrait of our parents. Who in there right mind marries into a new family and conducts themselves in such a disrespectful way? You told me you had no knowledge of this and I asked that it should be removed. You said you would look into it and deal with this issue.

On Wednesday 17th February 2010 I noticed a different portrait of our mother with the name of your wife *Uncles Wife* underneath. Clearly *Uncles Wife* is presenting herself as a clairvoyant medium through whom we can communicate with our parents. I feel this is a deceitful act and I have no choice but to defend the honour of our Father and Mother by exposing *Uncles Wife* negativity, lack of truthfulness and integrity.

In July 2008 *Uncles Wife* claimed to have direct contact with the spirits of our Father, Mother, *Aunty* and your son *Cousin*. In response I sent you an email highlighting my concerns at the time that included several lies and contradictions I had identified. Her true motive surfaced when she claimed their spirits had tapped into the mind of my Son and found he was being influenced by evil spirits. These spirits diagnosed he was mentally and emotionally damaged and needed counselling! This was a very serious allegation. In fact, *HeyPachucho* is not emotionally damaged; he is articulate in his thinking, artistic in his drawings and poetic in his writings. These are clear signs of a positive creative young man who is in full control of all his thinking capabilities. Nevertheless, these claims caused me unnecessary anxiety. Further to this; on a previous occasion she claimed Dad, Mum, *Aunty* and *Cousin* all visited me and banished all evil spirits from my home. To ensure these evil sprits would not return you instructed me to put down garlic on all windows and doors. Needless to say I didn't follow this advice, I'm a spiritual man and don't believe in such Superstitions. Nevertheless, the negative intent was there to cause fear and anxiety.

When questioning *Uncle's Wife* about these wild unsubstantiated allegations it became apparent to me that when cornered she continues to lie, and backtrack in an attempt to cover up. She claimed it was not her words but those of the spirits she is communicating with? It's worth noting by their very nature these claims identify these sprits as malevolent (malicious, spiteful and wicked). This correlates with yet more false allegations regarding our Father producing and selling meth and our Mothers infidelity in that she cheated on him with another man. Clearly, these spirits whom *Uncles Wife* claims to be in contact with cannot be from a benevolent source like our Father and Mother who where the most honourable, kind, caring and compassionate salt of the earth people.

Our Father was a proud, strict disciplinarian who ruled with a rod of iron. I remember on one occasion he beat the lies out of me when I stole a 6 pence piece. Although I don't agree with this approach, looking back I thank him for the discipline that he imparted to me that has kept me on the straight and narrow. He fathered and helped raise 14 children relocating half across two continents. Having struggled to father and raise children myself I can now appreciate his positive energy, drive, ambition, loyalty and commitment to his family. These positive attributes commend respect. "
 
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