"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what importance does the ego have on women?

chancer

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I use to have a really big ego. One girl said that I have an ego so big that it was a bad thing, but she liked me anyway... It really didn't mean much to me back in the day, and I still got her and the next girl. But I'm becoming less and less dependent on my ego. My roommate says that your ego has to show how great your are. But sometimes I talk about the things in my room and the things I do, but sometimes it feels like I say too much and turn the girl off. What are the benefits/flaws to having a big ego? How much of an importance does your ego really have on women?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Delta

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ego is good. self aware. willful. acting according to desire.

but there's a fine line between self centered (which is arguably good because it is honest) and being self absorbed which is simply gauche.

simple etiquette might be enough for you to get the difference.

delta
 

TONYMONTANA523

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Act like your the sh*t and people will think your the sh*t. i think my big ego has helped me alot. Ill tell girls i wont date sh*t like that and theyll end up sleeping with me. But sometimes girls will try to put me down i just dont let it phase me.
 
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