"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what importance does acting like she wants me(to her face) have?

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The Last 2 girls ive been with ive had the same problem with both girls.
I act c/f, confident, have high social value, negs, got kino goin on, im doin pretty much everything except act like i know she wants me, and both times when i went in for the kill (it felt totally natural- hands on hip type of hug and EC) she dodged it! i was like wtf am i doing wrong... im still learning so i sometimes forget something but still.. is it majorly important? does c/f crumble without it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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reaaaally need help guys, this is like a sticking point i guess and i gotta get over this problem :p
 
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I've been trying to get with this one chick in a long distance relationship. I told her that she likes my physique, she talks about me to her friends, and has fantasized about me. She convieniently went on a break with her boyfriend as of 2 hours ago. We're meeting tommorrow. =)

It helps, but you gotta get a feel for it. If you KNOW she wants you, then go ahead and do it. No point in acting otherwise.
 
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