"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WHAT IF... [Silly Idea]

Fly By Night

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You go on a date with a chick... IN REVERSE!?

This idea first hit me when I remember when I gone out on a date with a girl from high school. She was super into me for some reason and as soon as I met up with her, we hugged and then it just transitioned into a 1 minute make out session. We never even lightly kissed before that.

So now I'm curious, do you think it could work if you instantly make out with her in the beginning? Do you think social standards would make her freak out?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cablecow15

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haha , If the attractions there why not , there's been a few girls that as soon as they got into my truck , all i was waiting for was the first stop sign before i leaned over and kissed her , I did it with out warning and she was shocked by my boldness
 

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˙ʇɥƃıu ʎq ʎlɟ `ɐǝpı ʇuǝllǝɔxǝ
 

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This is exactly what happened with a girl I'm seeing now. We had talked via text and email for about 3 weeks previous to meeting up. Her attraction was high. On the first date I walked up to her and kissed her without saying a word.

We have been seeing each other for about 2 months now.
 
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