"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WHAT IF... [Silly Idea]

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Fly By Night

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You go on a date with a chick... IN REVERSE!?

This idea first hit me when I remember when I gone out on a date with a girl from high school. She was super into me for some reason and as soon as I met up with her, we hugged and then it just transitioned into a 1 minute make out session. We never even lightly kissed before that.

So now I'm curious, do you think it could work if you instantly make out with her in the beginning? Do you think social standards would make her freak out?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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haha , If the attractions there why not , there's been a few girls that as soon as they got into my truck , all i was waiting for was the first stop sign before i leaned over and kissed her , I did it with out warning and she was shocked by my boldness
 
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˙ʇɥƃıu ʎq ʎlɟ `ɐǝpı ʇuǝllǝɔxǝ
 
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This is exactly what happened with a girl I'm seeing now. We had talked via text and email for about 3 weeks previous to meeting up. Her attraction was high. On the first date I walked up to her and kissed her without saying a word.

We have been seeing each other for about 2 months now.
 
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