What If She's Playing Games?
by Crowes22
There are a lot of questions about mixed signals and game playing from women. This is what I have found will stop it all cold -- Walk Away!
It may sound obvious but I know that even when I was acting DJish some girls would still try to manipulate me, especially the hot ones. It amazes me the power some women "think" they have over men.
I know this to be true, and it's men's fault. Most men will try and try again with a woman until she just bites his head off. Most girls, the hot ones for sure, really think that they can have their cake and eat it too. They don't think you have the guts to walk off; they think you'd never do that.
I believe women think that as long as you think you may have any chance at all with them, you'll remain accessible. As a matter of fact, I know this. Women feel comfortable playing games and making you wait around. Walk away and they cannot believe it; it blows their minds.
When you walk away it actually clearly displays to them all the traits they want in a man. So don't let her toy with you.
The last girl that was trying to manipulate me was beautiful and knew it. She was interested in me but would not do what needed to be done for us to be together. I'll just say that she was trying to "have her cake and eat it too."
She knew I was interested, and that she was hot, so she thought she could get away with murder, so to speak. She never dreamt I'd say to hell with her and move on. But I did, and I'm damn proud of it. And she was crushed!
It still amazes me how much girls hate to lose when they are trying to manipulate or get something from a guy. The real hot ones have probably never had a guy walk away, ever. So they have themselves on a pedestal.
If you walk away because she isn't "playing fair", it destroys that pedestal, and her fantasyland is replaced by a big slap in the face, a dose of what men deal with daily from women -- pain, reality, rejection, loss.
I think that the act of a guy walking away is our ultimate weapon. You must be willing to do this. Women can walk away easily, because getting dates or sex for them is a given, unless they are really unattractive. They know the power in it. But most guys won't use this power, or don't realize they have it.
We do have it, and it does all come down to confidence. I think a lot of guys aren't sure what confidence is. My description of confidence is being fine without a woman. That is the ultimate weapon to combat a woman's game playing. It may not prevent them from playing games or trying to manipulate you, but it damn sure will frustrate and confuse them.
When that one girl that thought I'd never walk off found out I did because she wasn't playing her cards right, it stripped her of any power she "thought" she had over me. That's a good feeling and I hope others will use the power of "walking away."
It is a power naturally bestowed upon an attractive woman, and they think they are the only elite group that has it. If you utilize this same power that you DO have, she will see that you have the same if not better "weapons" than she does.
From then on, if she is interested, no more games or manipulation. She will be "on her toes" and attentive, likely working harder than you to salvage a chance for the two of you getting involved romantically.
