what if she hints that she doesn't want to be with her boyfriend?

[sosilky]

Just giot off the phone with a girl i haven't talked to in a while. We catch up i use all the conversation tips in the bible and sghe brings up her boyfriend but its all about how she doesn't feel anything for him and somethings missing. I listen fior a while then change the subject. Now if shes dogging her relationship to me that doesn't realy make me an emotional tampon does it?

she wants to hang out this weekend. i was like maby.

 

[SinJester]

Yep, sorry man but it sounds like you were being an emtional tampon.

No offense but I think you should just go out and get a lot of experiances, that sounds like what you need. You have obviously read a lot of the bible and that's good but not you need a lot of experiance to back up that knowledge. You can't get that by posting here. Trust in your own instincs rather than looking to others, make your own descisions, and even if you get it wrong you will learn something, that's EXPERIANCE.

 

[KontrollerX]

Only if you allow her to dump her emotional vomit on you regularly.

Once in a while is alright as long as you are getting something out of it.

When a chick cheats on her boyfriend with you in general you should rule her out for a serious relationship as if she will do it to him she will do it to you because being a cheater is her nature.

Thats not to say you don't use her for all she's worth and fvck her brains out for a while though.

By all means have at it just don't give a chick like this your heart.

 

[sosilky]

Yep, sorry man but it sounds like you were being an emtional tampon.

No offense but I think you should just go out and get a lot of experiances, that sounds like what you need. You have obviously read a lot of the bible and that's good but not you need a lot of experiance to back up that knowledge. You can't get that by posting here. Trust in your own instincs rather than looking to others, make your own descisions, and even if you get it wrong you will learn something, that's EXPERIANCE.

I've had plenty of experiences. i've been with allot of women. I'm just looking to improve my game.

 

[ready123]

I've had plenty of experiences. i've been with allot of women. I'm just looking to improve my game.

there's a guy who used to post here named SexPDX. one post I remember from him was that he improved his game by realizing he was better than most of the stuff here

if you've been with a lot of women, you're naturally better than most of the stuff here. you probably just wanna learn how social dynamics works so you have a working model in which to improve your game. if that's the case, cool, just realize a lot of advice tends to cater toward the guys who totally don't get it - guys who buy girls jewelry on the second date and sht like that. guys who can't even get a first date, etc

 

[sosilky]

you probably just wanna learn how social dynamics works so you have a working model in which to improve your game.

where can i learn about this?

 

[BMX]

Tell her to grow a pair and to call the grief hotline.