"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WHAT if she has a boyfriend?

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I met this girl I like and she told me she has a boyfriend for 4 years. I asked her why she wasnt getting married and told me she feels fine as things are. she kinda got nervous about it.

this girl has been making eye contact with me for 3 months but I didnt pay much attention until she introduced herself.

I told her I have a girlfriend and a stalker , and that I wasnt really in love with my girlfriend. (I know its a mistake to talk about that in the 1st conversation but she was kinda doing the same)

she said "poor girl" about my girlfriend and implied that there was no point in continuing with her. I also told her that my girlfriend makes me feel claustrophobic and that I needed some space.

when i said " u women want it ALL" she rapidly said "i don´t"

I really like this girl more than anyone else before and i know is true cuz shes not physically beautiful.

what do u think I should act like when I see her again? I know what im gonna do cuz i have nothing to loose but just wanna know your opinions.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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alot of fat girls are nice..
(physically unattractive, u said it)

try finding one who isn't in a happy relationship..

do u want to marry a girl who cheats on/dumps boyfriends of 4 years..

move on mate.. what ur trying to do is wrong.. and for what? a nice fat girl? they are a dime a dozen.

sorry if it seems harsh.. but ur 33, not 16.. a 16 year old would get a completely different answer from me.
 
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Originally posted by quest
alot of fat girls are nice..
(physically unattractive, u said it)

try finding one who isn't in a happy relationship..

do u want to marry a girl who cheats on/dumps boyfriends of 4 years..

move on mate.. what ur trying to do is wrong.. and for what? a nice fat girl? they are a dime a dozen.

sorry if it seems harsh.. but ur 33, not 16.. a 16 year old would get a completely different answer from me.
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who said she was gonna cheat?
who said she was "unattractive"?
who said she was in a happy relationship?
obviously u dont get it.

have u seen madisson bridges? im not talking about dating nor flirting.
 
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