"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What if she doesn't have skates?

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I was going to tell this girl to come with me to the public skating, but I was wondering what I should do if she doesn't have skates? Do I go with her to a store so she can buy used skates before we go or do I just tell her to forget it and I'll find someone else to go with?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PDubb75 said:
Is it an actual skating rink? They should have rentals.
Yeah, it's a 4-plex, I called and the guy said no rentals and then told me I should just go buy a pair because I'll save money.

I dunno, I'll call again because he seemed a little confused...
 
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