What if she doesn't have much to say?

[Krassus]

The notion of letting the girl do most of the talking while remaining mysterious is great.. most of the time. But what happens when you run into a girl that doesn't have much to say? In other words, a girl that's trying to do the exact same thing to you as you are to her! You see what i'm getting at? No matter how hard i try, we end up talking more about me than about her! Her interest goes way up when we start talking about me instead of her. Some of you might ask me why i'm interested in a girl like that in the first place. Well here's the thing. She's not boring. She's fun and has a great sense of humor. But she doesn't exactly have an exciting life she can talk about, since she's forced to spend a lot of time studying.

 

[THA REALNESS]

Then My friend kiss the ground tha god created qand thank the almighty one that you have found an nice and attractive broad that doesn't run her yap all god damn day.


...and if she cooks and cleans ...you marry her.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Amen to your great post. Yeah, she is a definite keeper. Although its obvious why her IL goes through up when you talk about yourself, cause your taking away your own mystery and basically killing yourself. Sounds like a nice girl, keep her around.

 

[Nine Breaker]

The concept of "letting the woman do most of the talking" is a great method of maintaining mystery and is especially useful in dealing with extroverted women who know (or at least think) they're quite attractive. The trouble with this concept is that it is not necessarily the best course of action with introverted, shy, or just generally quiet women.

If, as you say, her interest in you goes up noticably when YOU are the topic of discussion, then that's a good thing - just don't overdo it by trying to sell yourself too readily. Lose the mystery and you lose the woman. Very few women stick around when they know everything there is about you - excitement and possibilities are the characteristics that "mystery" preserves.

Now, one possible solution is that, since you feel her life is not as interesting as it could be, you could always make her life more interesting by showing her the time of her life - do things that she would really like to do, but doesn't seem able to do so on her own. If you don't know the things that she would want to do - FIND OUT. That's a conversation topic right there.

Women, from the most extroverted attention-junkie to the quietest of introverts, all find a man that can open a new world of possibilities and excitement for them highly desirable, and usually do whatever it takes to hold onto them.

Hope this helps.

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by Nine Breaker
The concept of "letting the woman do most of the talking" is a great method of maintaining mystery and is especially useful in dealing with extroverted women who know (or at least think) they're quite attractive. The trouble with this concept is that it is not necessarily the best course of action with introverted, shy, or just generally quiet women.

If, as you say, her interest in you goes up noticably when YOU are the topic of discussion, then that's a good thing - just don't overdo it by trying to sell yourself too readily. Lose the mystery and you lose the woman. Very few women stick around when they know everything there is about you - excitement and possibilities are the characteristics that "mystery" preserves.

Now, one possible solution is that, since you feel her life is not as interesting as it could be, you could always make her life more interesting by showing her the time of her life - do things that she would really like to do, but doesn't seem able to do so on her own. If you don't know the things that she would want to do - FIND OUT. That's a conversation topic right there.

Women, from the most extroverted attention-junkie to the quietest of introverts, all find a man that can open a new world of possibilities and excitement for them highly desirable, and usually do whatever it takes to hold onto them.

Hope this helps.

Well said!