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What if she cancels a date or doesn't show up

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Hey guys,

This is what I always found an interesting topic.
"What if she cancels a date or doesn't show up"

If this every happens with me..
Then I never know what to do next...

You have 2 things...

-She cancels a date
(And what do you have to do when this happens?)

-She does not show up on your date
(And what do you have to do when this happens?)

Greatings... Master knight adventurer...
 

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If she cancels she could have a proper reason so you just say "call me back to reschedule" But you dont call her never call back if she cancels you will look desperate.

If she doesnt show up well thats pretty f**ked it has never happend to me but id advise you not to call her just get over it AND DONT WASTE THE NIGHT EITHER your out so you might aswell go pickup another 10 girls for the 1 that rejected you.
 
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Reframe the situation

Over on alt seduction, one of the greats Maniac High reframed a situation whereby he made the chick beleive that the date was the next day. For example. If your date was for a Wednesday night and she doesnt rock up. You phone her that night and confirm that your both on for tomorrow. She cant turn around and say she stood you up, i.e. you should have met that night. She will either have to agree to it or confirm that she stood you up. If she stands you up then rip into her about wasting your time etc. Show no mercy and get her to agree to make it up to you.

When you phone, you have to sound sincere, like the date really is tomorrow. LOL. I look forward to hearing your progres on this one.
 
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Confidently try again another time and never lose your cool.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I say nothing, don't call, don't even acknowledge it. I just wait for an apology and explanation...and I get one every time.

If the apology is via email or text message, I wait 2 days before I reply to give them time to think about what they did. It drives them crazy!

Silence is one of the most powerful forms of "punishment" for cancelled dates, flakiness and alike.
 
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