"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What if she cancels a date or doesn't show up

mka

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Hey guys,

This is what I always found an interesting topic.
"What if she cancels a date or doesn't show up"

If this every happens with me..
Then I never know what to do next...

You have 2 things...

-She cancels a date
(And what do you have to do when this happens?)

-She does not show up on your date
(And what do you have to do when this happens?)

Greatings... Master knight adventurer...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Black_Italian

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If she cancels she could have a proper reason so you just say "call me back to reschedule" But you dont call her never call back if she cancels you will look desperate.

If she doesnt show up well thats pretty f**ked it has never happend to me but id advise you not to call her just get over it AND DONT WASTE THE NIGHT EITHER your out so you might aswell go pickup another 10 girls for the 1 that rejected you.
 

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Reframe the situation

Over on alt seduction, one of the greats Maniac High reframed a situation whereby he made the chick beleive that the date was the next day. For example. If your date was for a Wednesday night and she doesnt rock up. You phone her that night and confirm that your both on for tomorrow. She cant turn around and say she stood you up, i.e. you should have met that night. She will either have to agree to it or confirm that she stood you up. If she stands you up then rip into her about wasting your time etc. Show no mercy and get her to agree to make it up to you.

When you phone, you have to sound sincere, like the date really is tomorrow. LOL. I look forward to hearing your progres on this one.
 

Jack McCrack

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Confidently try again another time and never lose your cool.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jariel

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I say nothing, don't call, don't even acknowledge it. I just wait for an apology and explanation...and I get one every time.

If the apology is via email or text message, I wait 2 days before I reply to give them time to think about what they did. It drives them crazy!

Silence is one of the most powerful forms of "punishment" for cancelled dates, flakiness and alike.
 
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