What if she asks about your sex life?

[Krassus]

How do you handle a situation where a girl inquires about your sex life? For example, if she asks how many girls you've dated, and whether you've ever had a ONS?

 

[ShortyBrown]

#1 do you feel comfortable offering the information to her?

Tell her the truth man. Maybe she'll ask her to show her a thang or two, I know I would

 

[TesuqueRed]

This is a test question you can flip to your own advantage.

First: realize you are not obligated---and SHOULD NOT--answer an intrusive and inappropiate question. And her lines of inquiry are certainly that.

You can play off it with a C&F style "that's classified information and you don't have security clearance yet.."

Or a straight up "that would be telling now, wouldn't it?"

Or, if she caught you like the proverbial deer in the headlights, you can just straight out say "I don't kiss and tell" and then shut up.

This will tell her that should she decide to spread legs for you, you will be discrete. That's how you can flip it to your advantage.

And if she gets inappropriate and really tries to manipulate it out of you---give off the impression that she's being low class and out of line and just say "that's inappropriate." Shut up and put some distance between you and her for a little while that night. If she can't pick up on boundaries--she is low--and you need to inforce boundaries here.

Think of nexting someone like this, the pvssy isn't worth it.

 

[squirrels]

Agreed...she has no business asking about your sex life if she's not even a part of it.

 

[Walden]

That's a great call TR!

 

[Chaos-Knight]

maybe you could hint that you'v given Orgasms to
your past partners without being specific...
just a thought.

 

[ProQD]

You could just give them a sly smile and tell them you're a virgin. This topic has a lot of C & F opportunities. I am amazed how many times girls are extremely interested in talking about my dating/sex life. I find their curiosity to be a positive sign. Women are competitive and want to know what they're up against. Just be some what vague (keeps them intrigued) and never brag/embellish (you might have the chance to prove it!)

 

[syemour]

If only I would have known not to have given up this priceless information.....I coulda hit that night....damn...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Krassus
How do you handle a situation where a girl inquires about your sex life? For example, if she asks how many girls you've dated, and whether you've ever had a ONS?

Something I copied from another thread:

Re: 43 year old needs dating advice

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Originally posted by frankcd
I am 43 years old and have dated very little in my life.. Recently I had a woman I liked ask me a few questions.

One question was "How many prior serious relationships have you had?"
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First of all, anyone (man or woman) who would ask that question has some type of insecurity hidden somewhere. Either that or they have this major need to compare notes for some morality BS. Plus a lot of women seem to enjoy catching a guy off guard.

Personally I'd tell her something like "You know, there was a time when I felt that questions like that were only asked by rude and judgmental people and I would not answer. Now it seems that it is one that is answered freely nowadays, so here's my answer. I feel that keeping track of such things dehumanizes the person and places them into a category like a collection of baseball cards or comic books. I would never do that to any of my friends." End of subject.