"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys,
I get the whole "nice guys get rejected" thing, and so on.

Which doesn't change a fact, that I am a bit on the sensitive side (everyone around tells me that), and I am a bit feminine (wouldn't mind wearing pink if not for the society).

Which doesn't change a fact that I want to f... brains out of some girls.

Any advice anyone?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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...then even yr hand will cheat on u eventually.

k so assuming yr really not gay..use it to yr advantage... Pickup at gallery openings book clubs craft fairs etc. The ratio will b insane.
 
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You simply need to change. Sensitive and feminine...what the hell are you talking about?

1. Be loving.
2. Be a MAN-that means a MASCULINE man.
 
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I'm not the most masculine mother****cer on the face of the earth myself at least in the traditional sense.


It really all just comes down to if a girl is into you or not. If you're hot you're affectionate. If you're not hot you're a faggot lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm not the most masculine mother****cer on the face of the earth myself at least in the traditional sense.


It really all just comes down to if a girl is into you or not. If you're hot you're affectionate. If you're not hot you're a faggot lol.
 
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merlinthe said:
Guys,
I get the whole "nice guys get rejected" thing, and so on.

Which doesn't change a fact, that I am a bit on the sensitive side (everyone around tells me that), and I am a bit feminine (wouldn't mind wearing pink if not for the society).

Which doesn't change a fact that I want to f... brains out of some girls.

Any advice anyone?
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Get used to beating your meat.
 
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samspade said:
Game comes in many forms. You still have to swallow the red pill and learn techniques, but you can accommodate your "sensitive" personality to make it work if you do it right.
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Yeah, I mean many PUA gurus have said that they get mistaken for being gay frequently. Is it any more feminine to wear pink than it is to paint your fingernails black like Mystery did? MeHow comes off as completely feminine. I think there is probably a form of game where a guy might come in under the radar by the girl thinking he'd make a great gay friend type.

Guys here have been conditioned to have such narrow vision, I think they'd be surprised at some of the out of the box things that might actually work. They might not have the highest success rate, but in the right situation I think almost anything might work. However, since it doesn't sound like the OP is having any success, that suggests he isn't doing it right.
 
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One of my best friends (who passed away several years ago) was a sensitive and feminine man. A lot of people just assumed he was gay just based on his mannerisms etc. His chosen profession was to be a nurse.

Anyhow that guy did VERY well with the ladies. He wasn't even a good looking guy at all. I had many women actually tell me he was quite homely. However that guy could charm the pants off the chicks and he always had hot girlfriends.

He was able to combine his sensitive/feminine side with a very subtle rugged and masculine side. He did this perfectly. He knew all the methods and tricks for gaming women and knew when to show each side of his personality at the right times. It worked so well that women would go absolutely crazy for him. I had to talk several of his girlfriends off the ledge.

Point of this story is don't think you need to change your natural personality just to get chicks. Read the DJ Bible and learn. Incorporate the lessons you learn here and you will succeed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls judge you on your opinion of yourself more than anything else.

It's all about frame control. Hold a strong frame around whoever you are, and stick to that, and you'll be fine. Never apologize for who you are.

Now, if your sensitivity is really you being AFRAID to express your true self, now that's something to work on.

Only YOU know the answer to that.
 
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You need to realise you are a fvcking wuss and give yourself a real kick up the backside.
 
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