"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What If A Girl Tells You. . . .(Read This)

Dante420

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What if a girl tells you that

You do not like her?


Think about it? How do you respond, do you go against protocol and say you do? Think of this being a situation after you already slept with her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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And this is where you dodge the question. Reflect it, be ****y, use actions to show your intentions, just don't give her a direct answer.
 

Dante420

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Hughman said:
And this is where you dodge the question. Reflect it, be ****y, use actions to show your intentions, just don't give her a direct answer.
Perfect. Handled it right

I said something like

"Wouldn't you just be lucky for that to be the case"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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William Vass

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Definitely reply with something ****y/funny... I have a lot of different inside jokes with various girls (making fun of them for being a nerd, one girl was obsessed with harry potter so I always poked fun at her for that)

Now insert that thing you always make fun of her for as the reason you don't like her..
something along the lines of "Well, maybe it'd be a different story if you weren't such a nerd" (big smile on your face now)

if she playfully hits you after this, you've succeeded!
 
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