"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what if a girl painfully rejects you?

lokariototal

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What if she does??!! What if you try to do soemthing and she's mean to you? For example in one ocassion I was going to touch a girl's hand and comment on her ring, and she was like "don't touch me". What would you do in those kinds of situations!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You thank her for her showing her true self, wich is a "complete waste of your time and energy b*tch" and then you move on to find a woman who is not a low quality whor*
 

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lokariototal said:
What if she does??!! What if you try to do soemthing and she's mean to you? For example in one ocassion I was going to touch a girl's hand and comment on her ring, and she was like "don't touch me". What would you do in those kinds of situations!!!
You tell her that you weren't aware that she had an infectious disease and then you thank her for the warning and walk away.

If you react, you already lost.
 

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lokariototal said:
What if she does??!! What if you try to do soemthing and she's mean to you? For example in one ocassion I was going to touch a girl's hand and comment on her ring, and she was like "don't touch me". What would you do in those kinds of situations!!!
Well for one,you shouldn't be going around trying to touch strange women in the first place.

This is women 101:Women are emotional. You have to make an emotional connect with them first before you can make a physical one.


Kino is good,but you can't start right off the bat doing it.

She doesn't know you. What is she supposed to do,let every guy who approaches start groping and touching her?



There's a good chance that whatever you said to her when you approached her didn't reach her emotionally. So instead of clicking with you,she was just standing there listening to some guy talk.



You might want to have a look at whatever it is you're saying to the girl BEFORE you attempt kino to see if it's making the girl comfortable enough to let you touch her.



Unless you're completely rude or obnoxious in your approach,there's no reason for a woman to "painfully" reject you.
 
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