What if a girl calls you her buddy?

[aspasp]

this was an im conversation

me: "wsup _____"

her: "hey budddaaay!"

What does this mean? friend zoned? etc?

 

[Dukester101]

I think we need a little more information here.

How old are you, how old is she? How well do you know each other?

I doubt anyone could offer a valid answer without more information.

 

[aspasp]

double post

 

[aspasp]

We're both in high school and we've only seen each other twice but we talk over to each other a lot iming--everyday. Met her about 2 weeks ago. She's called me daddy too before when i was pretending she was my daughter...etc. we flirt and stuff and we both acknowledge how funny we are when we talk to each other. She jokingly calls me mean and that sort of deal.

 

[Tesl]

Its not a positive thing particularly, but it doesn't really mean enough to worry about. Just carry on as normal and stop over analyzing.

 

[aspasp]

Yeah, it's only once so I'm probably being a ****ing AFC for overanalyzing

 

[Dukester101]

If I'd have to say anything, I'd say you're in the FZ. Like Tesl said though, I think you're just overanalyzing.

 

[Captain]

Posting about it on an internet forum means you need to stop over-analyzing things and meet more women so you don't even care what one says.

 

[War Against Betaism]

Since you're still in high school it probably doesn't mean much. The red flags for high schoolers I would look out for is if she calls you her "best", "favourite", "friend". At that point, unless you can somehow turn it around, you're friendzoned.

 

[Tiguere]

One of my plates calls me dude. Don't listen to what they say. Flirt flirt flirt.

 

[thecurtainfalls]

I just went through over-analyzing one of the girls I'm interested in calling me "buddy".

It turned out she had an enormous crush on me and things are going quite swimmingly.

It doesn't mean anything in and of itself. Some girls will do it because they call everyone that, or they're trying to feign disinterest, or a myriad of other reasons that males could not possibly understand.

Don't look for a sign that she likes you. Escalate until you succeed or receive an undeniable rejection. This is the key to obtaining what you want out of women in life.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

My Buddy? Wasn't that a doll from the 80's? Maybe you remind her of Chucky...Friends to the end!

 

[aspasp]

would a short freeze out work in my favor?

 

[nismo-4]

Stop overanalyzing and just go with the damn flow!

 

[Allurre]

Classic case of over analysis. If you want to understand what you mean to her more accurately, judge by the real interactions you two carry when together physically.