"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what if a girl ask....

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what if your tlakin to a girl like on the ocmputer or osmthei nand she ask u if ur into hookups or relationships?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by requested
what if your tlakin to a girl like on the ocmputer or osmthei nand she ask u if ur into hookups or relationships?
u shulod ask her if she wnats 2 fuk
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Say "You'll just have to wait and see..."

C/F guys, C/F!!!
 

Alphathree

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Say "You'll just have to wait and see..."

C/F guys, C/F!!!
LOL okay, apparently we're entertaining this with serious responses now?

Okay... I can dig that...

I think your C&F is creepy, Francisco. =)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Alphathree
LOL okay, apparently we're entertaining this with serious responses now?

Okay... I can dig that...

I think your C&F is creepy, Francisco. =)
Understand that I'm not a huge proponent of ****y/funny but I more so go toward confident/****y. However, that line was definitely ****y... :D

When I sarge online, I let women know that the medium is all about cheap entertainment. I'm there to amuse myself, if they want to talk serious sh1t, we'd have to meet for coffee or something.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia---great username. From my all-time favorite book, Atlas Shrugged. Francisco had game!
 
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