what i she treat me not the way i like

[jack03]

The most fear i have to approach a girl is that she could treat me bad or say something which hurts me or which i dont like.

Would you just go away or would you say something to her like :" Why do you treat me so bad..." or what else would you do ?

what can i do too feel more comfortable and stronger in such a situation ?

Jack

 

[dontmindme]

Develop enough confidence to take rejections like a man. Rejections are always going to be there, you can't avoid it if you want to get in on the dating scene, so the only thing that can possibly change is how you take it.

 

[jack03]

yeah i know this ! but how would you end such a situation.
If the woman says something wrong or treat you the way you don't deserve would you just go away or would you say to here that she is an idiot (or something else....) and that she should not handle this way guys ?

 

[8ball]

Never lose your cool in front of a woman.

Ever. ( I learned this the HARD way. )

Bite your lip, smile, let it roll off your back, and stroll away.

When you're alone in your house, then you can cuss, kick chairs, thow stuff etc.

But..while in the presence of the woman..you are untouchable.

Play it cool always. And always take the high road. If she calls you a miserable bast@rd you just smile and say: 'I'm sorry you feel that way.'

 

[jack03]

what is with the sentence " On which trip are you ???"

sorry for my bad english in german this sentence perhaps would be called a little bit other....

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by jack03
what is with the sentence " On which trip are you ???"

She wants to know what kind of drugs you are taking.

 

[es_mer8]

Whenever I get rejected I say, "Its your loss, I'll just find someone else." in a friendly tone. Don't run away crying or else the LFN will see you as a crybaby.

 

[The Business Man]

Just keep the "don't give a fvck" attitude. If you don't even know the girl, just walk off if that's what it takes to keep your cool. If you want to be polite, try some of the examples the other guys gave.

Just make sure you don't feel bad when they put their sheilds up. You will know exactly how to handle any of this stuff with experience.

 

[Kodiac]

"Baby... you have no idea what your passing up"... smile, walk off, IGNORE.

Next

 

[OddTech]

Unlike most guys here, I don't say much. No funny lines; nothing. I keep it simple and say, "alright, bye." It's just me, I realized that the more I try to make something creative, the more I loose control. I'm still vulnerable to rejection.