"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what i learnt today

Packers2010

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so today i thought it would be a good idea to re text the numbers i got at the weekend.

i was stumped what to text them. i though. I know, I'll call them a sloot. since my second text after the first didn't get anywhere yesterday. so i text 2 of my number " your such a sloot!" well one of them didn't text back. ( the blonde who i drove home. standard.) but the girl i met on the street when APE SHyte. like she called me heaps of names and just started yelling at me. she said i look like the hunch back of notordame and I had crooked teeth.

i just sent back " chill i am joking so what you up too?" she sent me "she was playing halo with her boyfriend now fook off"

at this point i was kind of hurt about what she said. I know i shouldn't have been becuse i did provoke her. I also should take what sluts take seriously.

but then i though about it

i asked why i felt the way i did, and i came to the conclusion that I though of her high then i though of myself, therefore i cared what she was saying.

really all she was doing is yelling at me because I called her a sloot. YES i know this is bad text game. the numbers was dead, i just wanted to see what happened. i saw a friend do it the other day though i would test it for myself. I realised that if i am going to do this. ( to get her to text back) I better be ready. ( I wouldn't do it again any time soon)

thinking about it now, I maybe could have tired to run with it longer, but i didn't think it was worth my time, plus i was at school.

I need to believe in me rather then thinking everyone is about me. that's my main thing i take away from this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lol you never call a girl fat or a slvt. They're literally fighting words. That's the equivalent of calling a guy a pvssy or a loser - they're blatant insults, not teases. Once you do call her that, there's not really any coming back from it either - I had to learn that the hard way myself
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Packers2010 said:
so i text 2 of my number " your such a sloot!" well one of them didn't text back. ( the blonde who i drove home. standard.) but the girl i met on the street when APE SHyte. like she called me heaps of names and just started yelling at me. she said i look like the hunch back of notordame and I had crooked teeth.
It's probably because she knew it was true.

"Many a true word is spoken in jest."
-Old proverb
 
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