"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What I learned this week

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Lesson #1:

I was on the phone talking to my almost girlfriend when I accidentally called her the name of another girl I'm talking to.
She flipped of course, I lied of course and calmed her down.

The moral of the story and a big tip,
Every now and then intentionally call her the wrong name,
this will make her insecure and cause her to see you as a greater prize and make her work a little harder to keep you satisfied.



Lesson #2:

When you first meet a girl after the introduction say:

So you must be a.....[pause]........O nevermind.....

She will say: I must be a what!? I must be a what?!
It will bug her to death that you didn't finish, of course you really didn't have a thought.
But this is called teasing. And it will attract her.


Lesson #3:

Make her apologize for no reason.

Ask her what she had for lunch or dinner, when she tells you, say
well I had bologna........you had a better meal than me
you owe me an apology because you ate better. Or: What time did you wake up this morning? Her: I woke up at 7. You: Well I had to wake up at 5, you got to sleep in and I didn't. Tell me you are sorry for taking it easy while I had to get up extra early.

What this is called is "training her". You are training her to be sensitive to your situation so that when she really does do something stupid to you, (AND SHE WILL EVENTUALLY) she will already know the routine and be ready to say she is sorry.


This is just some of what I learned this week.
I will try to make a summary every friday.

Hope you guys benefit, because I certainly do from all your posts and tips.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TDOT .. some ok tips .. but sounds like you're training a dog! lol .. maybe you are?

Women are a bit more intelligent than that i would hope anyway.
 

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Lesson #2:

When you first meet a girl after the introduction say:

So you must be a.....[pause]........O nevermind.....

She will say: I must be a what!? I must be a what?!
It will bug her to death that you didn't finish, of course you really didn't have a thought.
But this is called teasing. And it will attract her.


I like this one, but what do you tell her after she keeps bugging the shiet outta you saying "Im a what!!?? tell me now" what do you end up saying?
 

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Originally posted by seanmichaels
I like this one, but what do you tell her after she keeps bugging the shiet outta you saying "Im a what!!?? tell me now" what do you end up saying?

You simply change the subject and move on.
 
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