"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What I learned this week

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Lesson #1:

I was on the phone talking to my almost girlfriend when I accidentally called her the name of another girl I'm talking to.
She flipped of course, I lied of course and calmed her down.

The moral of the story and a big tip,
Every now and then intentionally call her the wrong name,
this will make her insecure and cause her to see you as a greater prize and make her work a little harder to keep you satisfied.



Lesson #2:

When you first meet a girl after the introduction say:

So you must be a.....[pause]........O nevermind.....

She will say: I must be a what!? I must be a what?!
It will bug her to death that you didn't finish, of course you really didn't have a thought.
But this is called teasing. And it will attract her.


Lesson #3:

Make her apologize for no reason.

Ask her what she had for lunch or dinner, when she tells you, say
well I had bologna........you had a better meal than me
you owe me an apology because you ate better. Or: What time did you wake up this morning? Her: I woke up at 7. You: Well I had to wake up at 5, you got to sleep in and I didn't. Tell me you are sorry for taking it easy while I had to get up extra early.

What this is called is "training her". You are training her to be sensitive to your situation so that when she really does do something stupid to you, (AND SHE WILL EVENTUALLY) she will already know the routine and be ready to say she is sorry.


This is just some of what I learned this week.
I will try to make a summary every friday.

Hope you guys benefit, because I certainly do from all your posts and tips.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TDOT .. some ok tips .. but sounds like you're training a dog! lol .. maybe you are?

Women are a bit more intelligent than that i would hope anyway.
 

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Lesson #2:

When you first meet a girl after the introduction say:

So you must be a.....[pause]........O nevermind.....

She will say: I must be a what!? I must be a what?!
It will bug her to death that you didn't finish, of course you really didn't have a thought.
But this is called teasing. And it will attract her.


I like this one, but what do you tell her after she keeps bugging the shiet outta you saying "Im a what!!?? tell me now" what do you end up saying?
 

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Originally posted by seanmichaels
I like this one, but what do you tell her after she keeps bugging the shiet outta you saying "Im a what!!?? tell me now" what do you end up saying?

You simply change the subject and move on.
 
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