“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What I learned at the club

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I was at the club again last night. No girls that I were interested in were there so I was kinda carefree. I still don't have the skills to do cold approaches, but I hope to do those next week. Anyways, I went to the club alone and met one of my friends there and he brought two chicks.

Girl 1, we both recognized each other from a class we had, but never talked before. We got acquainted and conversed about each other and she was into me. I was chilling and my friend told me that she told him that she wanted to get at least one dance with me. I was planning on doing that anyways. She was about a 7, not a girl I'd be interested in, but I'd hang out with her. I ended up dancing with her twice, basically rubbing our bodies all up against each other.

Lesson learned: girls will like you if you just dance. I didn't do anything special when I danced with her the first time, but she dragged me out there to dance again and had her hands and body all over me. This just re-inforced my belief that chicks are crazy at the clubs and love to dance.

Girl 2, ugly, not my type. Used a little charm on her to make sure she was having fun too.

Lesson: Don't neglect the friend, involve everyone.

I also learned that you have to be quick with cold approaches, no standing around. It also helps to use a wingmen to dance with pairs of girls so that one isn't left out. I limited myself to 3 drinks tonight and I still got busy so I'm definitely getting more relaxed at the club.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

Francisco d'Anconia

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Always remember the three second rule.
 

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Originally posted by MDgood
Ummm.. what's the three second rule?
It's the classic DJ approach...
Get the eye contact and approach after 3 seconds.
Smile isn't a bad thing either.
 

Oscar Wilde

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3s rule is very simple - Approach the girl within 3 seconds of seeing her for the 1st time - you don't hang back to try and think of something to say, just do it. And see what happens.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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