What I do during lunch/ getting dates

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

cloudatlus

New Member

May 20, 2015

Now a days its simple to get dates, I just go to lunch and If I see a beautiful girl or any girls I just go up and talk to them. My opener is simple, "Hi, I thought your cute and I just had to come and say." Say it with the biggest smile and mean what you say.

Talk for a few minutes, flirt around. If she's really cool I just her that we should grab lunch around the area. Grab her number and bounce. I've gone on a few dates this way and its fun. Feel like a boss afterwards.

My usual places are starbucks (one of my favorites), grocery stores are fun, target, anywhere. Just be spontaenous.