What I do during lunch/ getting dates

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

cloudatlus

New Member

May 20, 2015

Now a days its simple to get dates, I just go to lunch and If I see a beautiful girl or any girls I just go up and talk to them. My opener is simple, "Hi, I thought your cute and I just had to come and say." Say it with the biggest smile and mean what you say.

Talk for a few minutes, flirt around. If she's really cool I just her that we should grab lunch around the area. Grab her number and bounce. I've gone on a few dates this way and its fun. Feel like a boss afterwards.

My usual places are starbucks (one of my favorites), grocery stores are fun, target, anywhere. Just be spontaenous.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.